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I think we’ve been defining abundance all wrong…

Almost everyone I know thinks that abundance is about having money, more than enough, and having the things and people that you like around you. I did too, for years! Well… until I was in enough pain and frustration to finally get the shift.

Here it is, the definition that changed my life: abundance, opulence, really, is the ability to have what you need, when you need it. Not what you want. What your soul, your journey, your project actually needs, exactly when it needs it.

Just stay with me here.

The Awakening Message Episode #172

The Awakening Message Episode #172

Wide Awakening Radio The Awakening Message Episode #172 This month's radio show was essential listening to get prepared for the energies of "allowing yourself to fully be seen" this year.  Please listen a few times! This call was all about giving you the tools, so...

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It’s your time to THRIVE!

"Thriving involves expanding into life while looking for blessings and how to contribute, instead of simply trying to avoid suffering by changing your circumstances." ~ Jennifer Hough I got food poisoning on my romantic trip in Maui (so did my sweetie). It was very,...

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Ever feel frustrated you’re not “there” yet?

"Life changes when you make the goal heartfelt enjoyment, versus reaching expectations." ~ Jennifer Hough One of the places I see expectations arise is in "Flight School,"™ our year long program. What happens within that program is so much more expansive than what our...

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Have you forgotten you’re not alone?

"Your feelings of being overwhelmed are temporary until you remember you were not, are not, and will never be, alone. Ask; they’re waiting." ~ Jennifer Hough I don’t know about you, but I got humbled as we entered the new year, by seeing all sorts of “old protective...

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Why we teach what we teach…

"Are we waking up to ourselves, or are our "true" selves waking us up from within? What if that level of freedom, direct connection, and expansive prosperity has always been there; our birthright? What if it wasn’t so much work?" ~ Jennifer Hough I love having...

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Life is not about avoiding hurts

"Life is not about avoiding hurts. Life is about the freedom to enjoy every aspect, without limits." ~ Jennifer Hough SO WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? Well, it's about going from the jail of protection, to operating from an entirely different paradigm. Up until very recently,...

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An act of love, or a cry for love…

"Identities develop in response to several things: 1) The perception that we need to protect ourselves from hurtful things that have happened in our past, 2) the need to fit in, or 3) wanting to be loved. Give the gift this holiday season of the real YOU beyond your...

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What Would Love Do?

What Would Love Do?

It takes courage to share a deeper truth. It takes courage, guided by wisdom, to speak what would make the biggest difference. It’s worth practicing.   Sometimes we just want to speak a deeper truth than what is in front of us; Just to be heard, move energy, shake a...

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Somebody Unexpected Loves You

"How would you be different if you could actually take in all the love there is for you from all directions?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You, Did you know that a couple of times each year, some very special, precious, caring souls get together and talk about...

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The Courage to Awaken

"Painful events are catalysts that happen in reverse proportion to the degree to which humanity has the courage to awaken." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You, Although Paris’s recent violence was difficult to witness, and process….things like these events are...

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Hey, Are we Related?

"When you find the people who love and adore your delicious, unique expression of Heaven on Earth, with all of its wonderful weirdness, that's when you've found home. They don’t have to do anything but ‘see’ you, and that’s enough to give you the peace to fly...

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Have you been feeling a little shaky lately?

"When you feel shaky and unstable, it often comes after Awakening to a deeper truth, which displaces old, well-rooted, sub-optimal ways of looking at life. Your entire biochemistry shifts in response. So it IS real, and you are not nuts." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!)...

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Is it time to throw your goals out the window?

"The Ego likes to think that goals are amazing ideas that you came up with. Life wants you to know that it was already a thought form being molded in Creation, long before your mind 'caught up with' the idea." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You, Have you ever...

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Oh, this Awakening might shake a few trees… or, maybe not

Politics and Awakening... From The Wide Awakening Weekly "It would be nice to see the 'We Do What Expands Compassion and Abundance (regardless of liberal or conservative affiliation)' political party." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You, I'm the last person to...

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Are you leading the change or caught in the drama?

Are you leading the change or caught in the drama? Remember, you have trained people how to treat you. From The Wide Awakening Weekly "Frustration with someone who does not see you as you are after you’ve changed is understandable. Remember, you have trained people...

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Time to stop judging: our journey is miraculous!

Time to stop judging: our journey is miraculous! From The Wide Awakening Weekly "We see the sprouted acorn as miraculous as the mighty oak tree, and so is every stage of growth in between. The oak told me that it sees your life the same way, and was wondering if you...

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There is no Comparison, nor Competition

There really is no comparison... nor competition From The Wide Awakening Weekly "Comparing your journey to another's is like comparing an apple to an airplane: both are cool, and there is no comparison. It's just a convenient distraction from getting on with your own...

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What Life Was Supposed To Be

Expectations... don’t let them getcha! From The Wide Awakening Weekly "Freaking out when life doesn't match your mind's picture is like spending lots of time being upset when they bring you brownies and ice cream, instead of the brussel sprouts you ordered. Enjoy the...

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Where True Perfection Lives

Are you tired of the struggle? From The Wide Awakening Weekly "The degree to which you stubbornly hold on to doing things YOUR way is directly proportionate to the intensity of the tree shaking you'll get from the Universe to bring you back to your groove. Now that's...

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Life can question our faith

From the Wide Awakening Weekly About my neighbor, Don... and blueberry pie. "The more you enjoy your life, the less the judgments of others matter. The less you make the judgments of others matter, the more you can see to enjoy." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Hi there,...

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Why are we struggling with Prosperity?

From the Wide Awakening Weekly True Prosperity... are you in? "The two characteristics required to achieve true Prosperity are: (1) The courage to be yourself, and (2) The courage to be seen." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Hi there, One of the most asked questions in...

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