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I think we’ve been defining abundance all wrong…

Almost everyone I know thinks that abundance is about having money, more than enough, and having the things and people that you like around you. I did too, for years! Well… until I was in enough pain and frustration to finally get the shift.

Here it is, the definition that changed my life: abundance, opulence, really, is the ability to have what you need, when you need it. Not what you want. What your soul, your journey, your project actually needs, exactly when it needs it.

Just stay with me here.

Polarized Power

Polarized Power

"We were meant to be in a beautiful dance with life, not a wrestling match." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: ©2017JeannieSelda - Nature in Harmony Dear You: Have you ever had a movie catalyze you? I have that happen all the time. The other day I was watching a...

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You Can Do Anything from the Place of Pure Possibility

You Can Do Anything from the Place of Pure Possibility

"Imagine how your life would be if you knew every second of every day that the entire Universe has your back. Know it's possible; that's the first step." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: ©2016JeannieSelda - Heart Rock Dear You: I remember the first time I felt safe...

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Free Up More Energy

Free Up More Energy

"All you do is manifest all day long. What shows up is proportionate to how much you are in the way of Infinite Wisdom, and how much you are willing to have yourself be loved, versus needing to prove a thing." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: ©2017JeannieSelda -...

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Dance Directly With Love and Fly Within Your Relationships

Dance Directly With Love and Fly Within Your Relationships

"You are simply pure possibility that has landed in human form. That’s why Creating upon Creation feels expansive, and analyzing why there’s something wrong with you feels awful!" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Jeannie Selda 2016 - Whitehorse Dear You: Recently,...

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Move Out of the Whirlwind and Overwhelm

Move Out of the Whirlwind and Overwhelm

"Bring the remembrance, the love, the harmony into your body..." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Jeannie Selda 2016 - Whitehorse Dear You: It's so easy to get overwhelmed when the environment of the world at large is shifting so quickly, and there is so much...

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The 5 Keys To Love And Be Loved Without Fear

The 5 Keys To Love And Be Loved Without Fear

"What's possible is a complete disengagement from any drama, ever. That's where you'll find access to the information you need to shift any kind of struggle - fully in the present moment, with no distractions." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Jeannie Selda,...

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Engage, Be Vulnerable and Deepen Your Relationships

Engage, Be Vulnerable and Deepen Your Relationships

"Why stay in our heads to protect ourselves, when we can emanate love out and all around and transform anything." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: 2016 Jeannie Selda - Dancing Dear You: Shining your light doesn’t necessarily mean happiness, rainbows and Unicorns....

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Love is Generous, Infectious, and Creative

Love is Generous, Infectious, and Creative

"When you let love guide your actions, you are also letting Consciousness guide your actions, as love and Consciousness are made of the same fabric." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: ©2017JeannieSelda. Dear You: In these times of great change, where there are so...

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Change Your Default to Freedom

Change Your Default to Freedom

"Just imagine never being triggered by anyone or any relationship or any communication. Imagine being so clear and present that all the answers you need are right there, without drama. Imagine the peace that comes over you when you know in your cells all is well, it...

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Breaking Old Patterns

Breaking Old Patterns

"What if your default way of being was to follow your Innate Wisdom with clarity and confidence?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: By: Jeannie Selda, 2016 - Sunset, Tofino, Canada" Dear You: I still remember the day I decided...

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Finding Your Effortless and Unique Flow

Finding Your Effortless and Unique Flow

"Letting love win will cause fluidity in every area of your life. This includes letting love of deeper truths and integrity win." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: By: Jeannie Selda, 2016 Dear You: I used to think that letting love win meant being a doormat. That...

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Understanding Fathers…And Identities

Understanding Fathers…And Identities

"We can try to fit in or we can use the contrast of our differences to catalyze a search for deeper understanding." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: By Jeannie Selda - "Father & His Boys" Dear You: Happy Father’s Day week! In witnessing both my dear Dad and my...

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The Universe Has Your Back

The Universe Has Your Back

"The Miracle Zone is always available to those who choose to enjoy the dance, rather than accomplish it." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: By Jeannie Selda : Trip with Flight School - Tofino Dear You: Are you someone who tries to control outcomes, and forgets to...

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Feeling “Off”? Let’s Find Out Why!

Feeling “Off”? Let’s Find Out Why!

"Infinite Wisdom dreamed us into existence as Creators, not victims. When we forget who we are, it may not feel that way. The key is learning the skills to remember who we are, with consistency." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: By Jeannie Selda - Sunlight Mudra....

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MAKING A CELLULAR SHIFT

MAKING A CELLULAR SHIFT

"What if you could live in constant flow with what your own Innate Wisdom guides you toward?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: The Wide Awakening Adventures Dear You: I start to laugh to myself when I think of my vision of a healthy, loving, intimate relationship...

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Follow the Call of Your Heart

Follow the Call of Your Heart

"Are you envisioning your future? Or are you simply catching up to the future your Higher Levels have already created, based on your heart's desire? Could it be that simple?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Image by Jeannie Selda, 2016: Jennifer Hough - Beach...

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Celebrating Motherly Love

Celebrating Motherly Love

"Freedom as a parent comes when you decide to guide your children rather than control them. It's all about walking side by side together" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Jennifer Hough, 2016: "Stroll on the Shore" Dear You: I am celebrating my Mom this week (Dad,...

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What’s Possible in Love and Relationships

What’s Possible in Love and Relationships

"To actually have Awakened delicious love in your life, you must first believe it is possible. Are you open to allowing true love in? In all areas of your life? Can you feel the possibilities?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Jeannie Selda, 2017. Jennifer Hough...

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The Mutual Honoring of a Man and a Woman

The Mutual Honoring of a Man and a Woman

"True love grants the other the gift of freedom to go on their own journey!" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Photo: Jennifer Hough - Jennifer and Adam's Wedding Day. Dear You: Okay, you know how sometimes someone tells you a powerful truth, but it’s...

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Happy Earth Day!

Happy Earth Day!

"We are not above nature to fix her; we are of nature and here to remember that. To the degree that we remember we are as magnificent as Mother Nature, we will treat each other, and her, with reverence." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: In honor of Earth Day,...

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We Are Creation And Love

We Are Creation And Love

"You are the bringer of life to that which lies in pure potential. That’s what a Creator does." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: Do you realize that you contain the pure, unadulterated potential of the entire Universe? Do you know that your love of creating,...

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