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Years ago I asked “How can I stop having migraines?” when I was in the middle of one of the worst ones ever! It wasn’t going away, it was stubborn, like I am/was. I don’t mind being stubborn when it comes to what makes me feel expansive but it’s so ineffective when it comes to holding onto patterns that make us feel safe. But I digress.
When I said the two words that have saved my life many times, “Show Me”,
I knew that I would have to put the pain far away from my consciousness,
so I could listen to the wisdom that transcends reason. So I just did.
I let my body experience pain while my consciousness simply went beyond this dimension.
Everyone can do it, it’s just that most people forget in the moment that they can.
Recently, I’ve had to do exactly the same thing during some trying times with my husband’s health. Except now it’s about transcending his pain, and my carrying of his pain. What I got shown in every case, is this.
In last week’s newsletter, I shared how the laws of physics determine that what you make important to you through your actions, words, and deeds will continue to show itself in your life. Today, I’ll share the importance of fractals, spirals and the holographic Universe.
The spin of things is a principle that will take an understanding of renowned physicist Nassim Haramein’s current thesis. It’s also going to take some understanding of the idea of fractals and the holographic Universe. We will unpack that below.
We are one at some level of existence. Scientifically explaining the basis for this paradigm makes it a much more compelling concept. The meaning I found through the scientific explanation was life-changing for me; I hope it is for you as well.
The laws of physics say that what you make important to you through your actions, words, and deeds will continue to show itself in your life.
Suppose the paradigm in which you are living your entire life is based on a flawed or incongruent fear-based collection of beliefs, or a paradigm.
In that case, it will influence every event, person, thought, and interaction that you encounter.
You walk around with that perspective in your DNA. Consciousness loves you; you are an ocean in the drop of consciousness (thank you, Rumi). Thoughts are simply the result of the beliefs you hold, which ultimately reflect the paradigms that you live by.
It’s interesting that visionaries are terrific at seeing the big picture but, sadly, not always great at building bridges so others can share their visions for the future of their business, projects, families and dreams. It’s frustrating for others that don’t see life in the same way.
As a visionary, I find it frustrating because sometimes, we can’t understand why others don’t see our future vision and sometimes judge colleagues unfairly.
In the past, I’ve had to deal with this in TWA. My brain is naturally wired for the big picture, which is no better or worse, just a different way of being. Sometimes, though, we visionaries unhelpfully project our way of thinking onto others, assuming they see what we see, leaving them feeling they didn’t get the memo about the way forward.
‘Or betters’ present frequently when we simply remember ourselves as the embodied intention of everything we’ve ever lived in any life. They manifest when we remember our free will to choose, realizing our trajectory is the result of every past life, every desire, and every prayer you have ever prayed.
‘Or betters’ happen when you live like control is overrated. Understanding the resources of the omnipotent and omniscient Creation will deliver for you so far beyond anything your lovely (please don’t hate me) pea brain can intend is key. Your brain only accesses your history, the programs you learnt in school and paradigms you’ve created through the years, and who wants to ‘rinse and repeat’ that again?
Your greater Wisdom is constantly dancing with the trajectory you are on. You’re a living intention, without ever needing to use your brain to intend. Infinite Wisdom is in a dance with you, responding to your every thought and, perhaps ever more, to your actions. It’s responding to your life’s purpose. The thing is, you can’t mentally intend your way to an awesome life.
What part of us is scared of change? It’s the part that has to die for the expanded version to become the new YOU, able to sustain the dream you’re dreaming.
The true infinite soul of us does not die, so YOU are not afraid to die. It’s the part of you that feels comfy, familiar and predictable that’s afraid. Personally, distinguishing between the true ME and the identities or aspects of my personality trying to protect me gives me some solace, lessening my need for courage.
On the other hand, what is this internal need to follow my heart?
To make dreams/imaginings/potential creations come to reality?
Do you feel that? Am I alone here? I don’t think so.
So often in the past, I’ve let myself become overly excited about the possibilities in my life. Equally, sometimes I have and still do let my mind run away with scary possible futures, or at least they feel scary in the moment. Either way, if I let my emotional reaction run away from me, it takes me out of my presence.
At the moment, I’m looking at my body and health and I feel that my body could be more fit than ever! This could also apply to my business, relationship, money or even my dog! Recently, I’ve caught myself becoming too involved in my emotions about the future, taking me out of the present moment where the redirections, clarity and expansive solutions are.
It used to be extremely hard to get myself back to neutral. I’m so blessed that it’s not really a roller coaster anymore but more an expansive ride forward, up and out. I’ve found that the shorter the time I spend being involved in or fascinated by my emotions, or my reaction to opinion about what’s going on, the more quickly I’ll receive answers and solutions.
I’m at Wholefoods writing this. The house, and my office pull on me too much. I’m prone to carrying my husband, although I mostly gave that up for lent! (I’m not Catholic, but you know what I mean).
Why take time away? Why move venues for a while? Why break from your focus?
Here’s my experience with thousands of clients, but more importantly myself.
There I was watching Interstellar (the movie), yet again! I’m passionate about physics. I love the images and experiences this movie shares around ideas that most simply hypothesize about. Here’s the cool thing … There are very few things that transcend every dimension. I didn’t really get it viscerally until then, although intellectually I have heard it many, many times before.
You can feel passionately about, and feel love for ideas that have yet to be created or which have already died, the beauty of space and the Universe, and complete intangibles, like God.
Listen, most people are as sensitive as you, they’ve simply forced themselves to be very linear and rigid. The result is that most people simply survive. They have okay love (or at least they did), they protect what is theirs but they never really find out what it is to exponentially co-create what’s possible, embracing both meaning and fulfillment personified.
Doing this will take these five things:
1. COURAGE – to let go of familiar patterns….
A visionary leader sees the possibility for change, feels a passion for a different future, and is called to something more than currently exists. They’re okay with not only shaking their own internal tree, but also those of others, creating fresh evolutionary pathways for themselves, and those around them.
In contrast, a manager takes what is, making the existing situation work and perhaps even improving it, if they’re good. A manager loves to organize, more than push the envelope of what is acceptable to society.
Neither one is better than the other because society needs both systems for success.
Embodiment is where it’s at these days … and 2023 is about the rubber-hitting the road for those visionaries who know there is more to life. No more just talking about it!
It is also time for evolutionary change, a new book instead of a new chapter in your life, and finding ways to live out all you’ve imagined by engaging your superpowers. It became clear to me that I am working with visionaries during one of our recent calls with soul family and in my one-on-one intensives. I wonder whether you see yourself that way or not?
We’re in a new era with evolved ways of finding our way to flow, flourishing and then ultimately flying. We can do that together in the brand new Embodiment workshop. The beta version is where it begins!
If you’re reading this, the chances are you’re a visionary and you may not even realize it. Don’t think of it as a big deal, it isn’t; it’s just that you’re inspired to listen to your heart, build bridges and find more intimacy with others, and in life. You’re making the contributions you were born to do. So you and I need a body.
In 2023, the subject of the body telling all and then it being taken for granted, is a big one for me.
I’ve had a pretty strong body for most of my life. As I’m moving through my 50s, I’m aware that I’ve been taking my body for granted. What my body is asking for now is not the same as when I was in my 30s, although my personality certainly wishes it was, as that would be easy.
Recently, while on a flight, I had a great discussion with a lovely woman whose perspective on life is very different from mine. In short, she suffers a lot and is angry most of the time. The perceived reasons for her upset are all outside herself and, although she tried super hard to convince me it was because of all the messed up people out there, alas, she didn’t win!
As you may know, I’m a relentless champion of deeper truths and higher conversations and, at this time of year, I thought I’d share this as you, or your friends, may need to hear it.
This past year offered so much clarity and contrast, bringing ‘the dark into the light’, revealing it both in the world, and in my own life.
As we’re shutting the door on the closing year, let’s declare it complete, with great gratitude.
I know I’m so thankful for all that came to light, making me laser beam focused on this coming year. I’m looking at ways to assist humanity more creatively than I’ve ever considered before, and all while simplifying as much as possible. Phew!
Our choices are clear. We either continue arguing for sides and trying to fix the past, or start engaging, as the Heaven on Earth Construction Crew, towards finding solutions for our lives, communities, and the wider world.
After listening to the news of a dear friend really struggling at this time of year, and some news I was aware of another colleague who was deeply depressed, it became pretty apparent what I wanted to share with you at this intense time of year.
This time of year can be so beautiful and yet it can also be challenging as there are several coinciding significant events.
1. The Winter Solstice: which is an opportunity to look at our choices, restart, and go within to remember ourselves as we move into the next major phase of the year.
2. A major figure’s birthday: Jeshuah represents compassion and forgiveness in the world, Christ consciousness being about unconditional love.
3. The End of a Yearly Cycle and the Beginning of a New One: These combined focus points allow us access to the love needed to move through just about anything, if we so choose.
At the same time, everything that is incomplete, ready to be transmuted, or unnecessary for the year to come will surely reveal itself.
Well, my old backpack died after 13 years of climbing mountains, going to swim with dolphins, and chasing rainbows in Hawaii. It’s the beige backpack. I’m thinking of all the people whom we’ve taken on Wide Awakening Adventures and program trips (including you!)
Honestly, letting it go was hard as I happily remembered being with Cathy in Bimini, Vikki in Italy, Nika in Asheville, Amy in Abaco, Jenny in Uxbridge, and so many more special moments. That backpack was a constant companion for all of it. When I threw it in the trash, I really felt I should have a ceremony, SO I DID!
It feels like everything is up to leave this year … clearing the decks with the Winter Solstice, Jeshua’s birthday coming, New Year celebrations, and all.
This week I’m feeling called to share with you an excerpt from my #1 international best-selling book: UNSTUCK: The Physics of Getting Out of Your Own Way
Chapter 4: Financial Expansiveness: What It Takes To Truly Thrive…
“The truth is that your natural state is one of abundance. I’m sure that you might respond to that statement by saying, “If it’s true that my natural state is abundance, how come it’s not reflected in my checkbook?”
I would counter that you are already abundant. Unfortunately, if this area of your life is an issue, the part of you that doesn’t want to acknowledge how abundant you really are is trying to train your brain to collect evidence to the contrary.
Why would it do that? Well, it’s dangerous to have money. People like me don’t have money. Tall poppies get their heads chopped off. It’s more virtuous not to have money. It doesn’t matter if we figure it out because we are probably only figuring it out from the perspective that we are broken.
Somehow, we operate under the flawed premise that knowing why we are broken might fix us. Right? See how it works?
I want to share with you this week a recent experience with my sweetie about staying connected to others, and what good is that if you are not connected to yourself!
His back has been really hurting him lately, and he is doing so much to ensure he makes his connection to his body, the future he wants, and his guidance.
When he is in pain, it’s easy for me to disconnect from my future, my guidance and my heart because I worry. Which, of course, doesn’t last very long (minutes, in fact) because you know what I know… that it is so disempowering to our partners and those we love to not know “they have this.”
In fact, worrying has the opposite result from the one I desire, which is that he finds his way to healing and health. My worry tells consciousness that I don’t trust his connection, nor does he have his own ability to heal.
After working with “Brain Bridges” for a short while, I experienced a huge paradigm “Brain Bridge” that changed my life so much. I couldn’t even work on belief shifting anymore, because my right brain convinced my left brain of such a deep, long-awaited truth.
When I say deep truth, I mean a deep truth for now, not forever. My experience is that truths evolve based on what we know about science, consciousness and physics, and we can’t even hold on to those.
As a Holographic Seer, I often see and speak paradigm shifts and find out their scientific explanation later. This was one of those cases. I was watching a documentary called “Superhuman.” It explains the Innate Abilities that cause us to be alchemical. For three years, the wakened dreams I was having showed me multidimensional DNA that allows us to access non-3D abilities, and junk DNA seemed to be connected to the mystery in my dreams.
I was recently reminded of a newsletter I wrote this summer. It was about how a day full of rain reminded me of three things. The sky’s clearing was an indicator of what was to come. It made me smile.
I truly do find nature is such a metaphor for what is going on in life, in the world, and certainly in my relationships and my business; do you?
I heard this little voice say, “The clearing in the distance, and the beauty of that sunset, are happening right now, and the clouds haven’t disappeared.”