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The cost of being right!

Recently, while on a flight, I had a great discussion with a lovely woman whose perspective on life is very different from mine. In short, she suffers a lot and is angry most of the time. The perceived reasons for her upset are all outside herself and, although she tried super hard to convince me it was because of all the messed up people out there, alas, she didn’t win!

As you may know, I’m a relentless champion of deeper truths and higher conversations and, at this time of year, I thought I’d share this as you, or your friends, may need to hear it.

Holy moly, what a week!

Holy moly, what a week!

We are in this together, in ways we cannot see. I understand this on a whole new level, as I humbly asked for help from my colleagues, teammates and friends. I tell you, what an exercise in receiving!

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My new favorite word saved my life!

My new favorite word saved my life!

You know how sometimes you just feel that a lot of change is happening? Well right now that is happening with my Team, in my business, in the world, my relationship, menopause, and for sure with this book going on.

I have spent the last eight months writing this book, and years moving through its creation, and now it’s time to let it come to life on its own. Completing it is definitely letting life know that I am up for what is next, because what is next is showing up everywhere. It’s a lot. My first response is to try to control it. Have you ever felt that way?

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Grateful. Scare-cited. Heart full, and a magical conversation…

Grateful. Scare-cited. Heart full, and a magical conversation…

Grateful. Scare-cited. Tingles. Heart full. Feeling all the feels as this book comes alive. What a journey it has been.

Have you noticed that it’s so easy to get overwhelmed when the environment of the world at large is shifting so quickly, and there is so much contrast?⁠ I’ve felt it myself, and recently have had to do quite a bit more to stay grounded.

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I get so much peace from this…

I get so much peace from this…

I want to share with you Day 6 of our 12 Days of Living UNSTUCK. Day 6 was all about What in the World is Going on with the World? In this video, we talked about creating bridges that are inspired by events in life that we don’t desire. The more quickly we let the polarity in life inspire new ideas, the more fluid life gets.

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I’m so over it!

I’m so over it!

I have goosies almost every morning when I wake up now. I have for all of January. I’m also watching myself feeling a little vulnerable, as the time to let this book-baby see the light of day approaches. It is a piece of me now.

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Giving birth much? Happy New Year…

Giving birth much? Happy New Year…

I spent the weekend of New Years by the light of our fire, together with Adam, examining what I am willing to settle for in my life. These past several years have caused me to examine what is simply not tolerable anymore, either for me in the world or in my life.

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An absolute must for New Year’s… fire yourself!

An absolute must for New Year’s… fire yourself!

I fire everyone from TWA (including myself)… but don’t freak out. There is a method in the madness, and it has to do with the New Year.

We have a crazy ritual we do at TWA, where I fire everyone at least once per year. “WHAT?,” you say? Yep!

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Happy Solstice… and something to complete this year.

Happy Solstice… and something to complete this year.

In this weekly message, I had a strong sense that we are being asked to relate, individually and collectively, to 2022 in a way that brings us across the bridge further to finding true fulfillment and meaning, while being the piece of the puzzle that we were born to be.

That perhaps we could do a Winter (or Summer, if you are in the southern hemisphere) Solstice reset exercise. The same one we did on our Be² call for December.

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Working hard?

Working hard?

I was chatting with a dear friend who asked the question, “When will the ‘bad days’ end?As soon as I “awaken”, everything will be alright, right?

It is so easy, when there are challenges around us, to focus on the aspects of life that are not working (or so we perceive). I am not saying this from a place of being an all-knowing guru, but from someone going through menopause and noticing how easy it is to collect evidence of what is “not” working when your hormones are all over the place.

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What about you?

What about you?

In our Agents of Awakening Community, we are almost at the end of our 33 Days of Waking Up Inspired exercise, where we have been sharing daily our future Activations and what we are grateful for.

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One word. Exponentiate.

One word. Exponentiate.

We are in this together, in ways that we cannot see. If we pay close attention, we can feel it to be true.

Last week during Flight School, there were so many different examples of how the group “did” each other, if you know what I mean. Although my ability to holographically see helps the container to keep in flow, the exponential results we saw were because each person truly leaned into the other as a group, like a microcosm of what is possible for the macrocosm of society. It was about the group coming together in the greater understanding of our connection, and then letting them/ourselves be facilitated by the love and passion of the collective human group and supporting cast in the “field.”

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An important little (or big?) twist on giving thanks…

An important little (or big?) twist on giving thanks…

A little upgrade on the idea of thanks this American Thanksgiving; a gift of appreciation from my heart to yours. I did a video on Thanksgiving that was all about fine tuning your vibration, and upleveling your ability to be a powerful Creator.

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Never forget and always remember!

Never forget and always remember!

Did you know that in Canada it is Remembrance Day today? I thought to myself, Remembrance Day is such a beautiful name for a special day. I remember when speaking in churches and synagogues all over the world, the words “never forget” were posted in significant places throughout.

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A life-changing turn of phrase for me…

A life-changing turn of phrase for me…

For me, and maybe you, too, I was also made well aware of what a good, productive person does by church, school and through my family. I also had many incidents that taught me why I might not be worthy or enough.

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Oh, I surprised myself big time!

Oh, I surprised myself big time!

Once upon a time, I was teaching a Get Out of Your Own Way™ course in a land far, far away (in Stouffville, Ontario, LOL).

We were in a big circle in a room with 20-foot windows, in the forest with 20 other journeyers. I asked the question, “Why are you here?”, and we heard from each participant until we got to the 19-year-old who asked me, “Why ARE YOUUUU here?” in Get Out.

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Been feeling tired lately?

Been feeling tired lately?

Have you noticed that with every full moon, new moon, or equinox, there seems to be an amplification of the upgrades to our multidimensional DNA? What does this mean?

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Maybe this is your sign…

Maybe this is your sign…

Picture Credits - Jeannie Selda “Consciousness can only reflect back to you where you are. It doesn't send you signs about where to go, unless you are already a vibrational match for heading there in the current moment.”- Jennifer Hough The other day, I was driving...

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Why some people don’t see movement as much as others…

Why some people don’t see movement as much as others…

What was interesting was that when it got really steep, she seemed to lose control and get really scared. We happened to be on the same hill, because I caught up to her on a particularly steep part, and she was doing big broad turns and then basically falling on her butt in order to stop her forward momentum.

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Heart breaking, yet still possible!

Heart breaking, yet still possible!

Picture Credits - Jeannie Selda “There is absolutely NO value in stirring the pot, or talking about things that you know are going to cause polarity.If you desire a better world and life, this is a time for bridge building, not wall building.”- Jennifer Hough After a...

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Sick of everyone fighting?

Sick of everyone fighting?

Picture Credits - Jeannie Selda “Don’t believe everything you are told. Part of embodying your innate intelligence isto build bridges of understanding, not to collect evidence for your righteousness.”- Jennifer Hough I definitely get frustrated watching people express...

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A delicious podcast triggered me to share this …

A delicious podcast triggered me to share this …

Picture Credits - Jeannie Selda "Receptivity is our natural state. It’s simply not our most well-practiced habit."- Jennifer Hough WHY DOESN’T WHAT YOU DESIRE MANIFEST ITSELF? I mean for real. I was listening to a delicious podcast this morning, and it triggered me to...

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