It seems scary to go through change…

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“I choose to remain curious about the unknown.
Jennifer Hough

It seems scary to go through change. For me, just as much as anyone else.The question is, which part is scared? It’s the part that has to die for the expanded version to become the new you, able to sustain the dream youre dreaming.

Our true infinite soul never dies, so YOU are not afraid to die, but rather the part of you that feels comfy, familiar and predictable.

Somehow, for me personally, distinguishing between the true ME and the identities (aspects of my personality) that are trying to protect me gives me a little solace and lessens my need for courage.

On the other hand, what is this internal need to follow my heart?

To make dreams/imaginings/potential creations come to reality?

Do you feel that? Am I alone here?

I don’t think so.

In times of great change, when there is so much polarity and fascinating differences of opinion, people are more catalyzed to create anew, to build bridges, to break glass ceilings and come up with ideas to bring flow and harmony.

Plus, we are wired to evolve our life experiences towards better and more preferable heights all the time, even without the catalysts.

But that means that we constantly have to be in a state of becoming.

You might think, “Well, why can’t we just be satisfied with what is”? Sure, that’s a perfectly sane way to be, in fact, it’s required as part of the equation that begets that most fluid path for visionaries. The equation goes like this “be thrilled with what exists, yet truly in anticipation of what inevitably is to come.

This is the perfect state for fluid, expanding lives. Of course, eventually, that need to create sneaks up on us, in a minor or seemingly huge way. I choose to remain curious about the unknown.

Sometimes, it’s hard to remain curious without some drama around subjects for which I seemingly have a great deal invested, like my career or my marriage.

Yet that fear of change really messes with these major parts of my life. So back to ‘curious on the adventure’ I go!

Not to kick and scream when life changes are presenting is an unusual way to be.

Especially the evolutions in who we are. I mean, we don’t even know where they’re leading! We have no idea who we are becoming!

Falling in love with the adventure of life will transcend your need for courage.

The entire Universe is evolving and spiraling forever towards more flow and creativity and we are made of those atoms. It’s inevitable! Resistance to change is futile, truly.

As for me, I continue to create systems and tools to embody my evolutions and I’m gonna keep on assisting others in finding their ability to flow, because the world needs the pioneers of change. People who change with the changes, are the pioneers of a new tomorrow.

If youre still here reading, I’m thinking that’s you! I love you, my fellow Unicorns.




Should we only do things that ‘feel good’?

Should we only do things that ‘feel good’?

Should we only do things that ‘feel good’?

Well, you might be surprised to hear me say absolutely not.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not about deliberately forcing ourselves to do things that feel awful.

It’s just that I hear so many people saying… “only do it if it feels good”.

Here’s the issue with that:

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Fear does an interesting thing to our brains

Fear does an interesting thing to our brains

Fear does an interesting thing to our brains.

I was listening to a brilliant podcast a few days ago which my husband reminded me about. Although they didn’t talk about this specifically, it struck me how important it is to understand how our brains work. In understanding this, I’m able to follow my knowing and feel connected to clarity, instead of being manipulated by noise which can only happen if I’m in fear; it’s so easy to be in fear these days, don’t you think?

Fight or flight creates an interesting shift in the brain causing us to relate to those who disagree with our viewpoint as the “other”, and there are those who want to manipulate others in order to protect themselves.

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The key to thriving is…

The key to thriving is…

A key to thriving is remembering that doing this is actually important.

It’s ‘nothing’.

That’s the thing, doing nothing is doing something.I’m sure you’ve sometimes tried to keep pushing through a project when life is showing you the harder and longer you push, the more unproductive things get, right?

I’m so guilty of feeling invincible or, put another way, stubbornly carrying on instead of being present to what life is showing, or sometimes commanding, me to do.

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