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I think we’ve been defining abundance all wrong…

Almost everyone I know thinks that abundance is about having money, more than enough, and having the things and people that you like around you. I did too, for years! Well… until I was in enough pain and frustration to finally get the shift.

Here it is, the definition that changed my life: abundance, opulence, really, is the ability to have what you need, when you need it. Not what you want. What your soul, your journey, your project actually needs, exactly when it needs it.

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Eye of the Storm

Eye of the Storm

"Consciousness has access to all of the resources that ever existed, will ever exist, and with every trajectory. That is, if you get out of the way." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: Who are YOU? There are many ways that question could be answered, but in...

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Just Be Yourself

Just Be Yourself

"If you change yourself in order to make others more comfortable, they will still judge you. Neither of you will be happy. If you be yourself, at least one of you will be happy!" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: The other day I was speaking at a conference, and...

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The Meaning of Embodiment

The Meaning of Embodiment

"Thriving begins when we embody the skills that come with being a Divine Expression of Creation in a human body. Suffering ends when we give up the idea that there was ever such a thing as being 'merely mortal'." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: Embodiment is...

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Shaking Expectations Loose

Shaking Expectations Loose

"You're not here to wrestle old struggles to the ground; you're actually here to dance and sing and play with all of life in total freedom. The cool thing is, doing that will make those struggles insignificant." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!)

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Love, or Carrying?

Love, or Carrying?

"Everyone around you has their connection to their Higher Levels, their Guides, their Angels... to the Universe, and they would feel that connection most when you love them without carrying them." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: How does one show love? For the...

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Don’t Be Pulled Out of Your Power

Don’t Be Pulled Out of Your Power

"Life is a privilege where we can be free of anything so we can dance with everything, if we choose." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: The events of daily living have the ability to come up on us so quickly that it's easy to find ourselves being pulled, and also...

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The End of Carrying

The End of Carrying

"Your following the path for you is always going to be in the highest for everybody" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: Carrying, or making yourself responsible and worrying about everyone else (or yourself), is something we have all done at one time or another....

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Transcend Gossip

Transcend Gossip

"Many Awakening people get lost in the Enlightenment Olympics. Expand or contract Heaven... choose wisely." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: So many people in the world of Awakening can get lost in playing the Enlightenment Olympics, comparing, trying to one-up,...

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Unplug and Slow Down to Speed Up

Unplug and Slow Down to Speed Up

"If you aren't fully present in your life, there's no room to be given to... and if you're constantly trying to be the one that micromanages everything, where's the room for the Universe to give to you?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: There's a story that...

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Living Your Piece of the Puzzle

Living Your Piece of the Puzzle

"If the entire Universe is conspiring for us to make manifest that which we've been asking for, for lifetimes... it would be bizarre if we had to work hard to figure out who we are..." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: When you look in the mirror, what do you...

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Just chill…

Just chill…

"When you feel shaky and unstable, it often comes after Awakening to a deeper truth, which displaces old, well-rooted, sub-optimal ways of looking at life. Your entire biochemistry shifts in response. So it is real: You are not nuts." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear...

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Do you change yourself for others?

Do you change yourself for others?

"When you change yourself so that others will not be upset by you, some will still judge and you will expend a lot of effort. When you be who you are, then at least one of you is happy." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: I just had a beautiful conversation with...

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What does it really mean to be free?

What does it really mean to be free?

"True freedom is not about changing your circumstances so you can feel comfortable. True freedom happens when you can dance with any rules, people, or circumstances without fear." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: Recently, I was immersed in a cultural experience...

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Living in the Wonder, not the Expectation

Living in the Wonder, not the Expectation

"Consider this... It is not the other person who is bothering you... it is your expectation that they should be other than they are." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!)   Dear You: I was reminded recently that often we are attached to an expectation, and we measure...

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Remember Who You Are and Why You Came Here

Remember Who You Are and Why You Came Here

"Are you done wrestling with Life?" ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!)   Dear You: Are you done wrestling with life? You're not alone. Time to remember who you are and why you came here. Time to give it up to the field. Love you! xoxoxo Jennifer...

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Your Soul Family is Not Necessarily Biologically Related

Your Soul Family is Not Necessarily Biologically Related

"So much peace will come when you realize that most of the family you seek is not necessarily biologically related to you." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: Isn't it amazing to see the cosmic family that the Universe sent to you? That's the cool thing about the...

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Seek to Understand… Then Everyone Will Win

Seek to Understand… Then Everyone Will Win

"Seek to understand... then everyone will win." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: When you start speaking from your heart, asking for clarity, and sprinkling fairy dust wherever you go, you will notice that some things may come up, and you'll notice people may...

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Ever Take Things Personally

Ever Take Things Personally

"It's not about you. It never was. It never will be." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!) Dear You: The other day someone that I love was so angry and it seemed to be directed right at me. But I knew it wasn't about me and at the same time it sure looked that way. I know...

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Dealing With Pressure When It Feels Real…

Dealing With Pressure When It Feels Real…

"Miracles become normal when you don’t let the world pull you away from the NOW." ~ Jennifer Hough (Tweet me!)   Dear You: 'm so excited to say that in the future, The Wide Awakening Monthly Messages will include a video message from me to activate and inspire!...

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Expectations Are Funny Things, Aren’t They?

Expectations Are Funny Things, Aren’t They?

"Saying, 'I should be further along my path than I am,' might be the equivalent of saying: 'I'm going to make up a goal that is neither attainable nor in Universal timing, then I'm going to use it to sabotage myself from being present to the miraculous unfolding...

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Now What?

Now What?

"Collecting evidence that others judge you is a waste of precious time. They do, quite a bit. The question is, will you use your energy to make everyone like you, or will you use it to express your uniqueness in the hope that one day they will catch up?" ~ Jennifer...

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