What’s possible when we shift in the way we shift…

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“No problem can be solved from
the same level of consciousness that created it.

– Albert Einstein

Here’s what was going on 20 years ago. I had to restrict my food to be healthy, I had to cleanse, I had to work hard on myself to “fix me,” and I had to be a much better person before I got on with my whole purpose. I asked myself, “Seriously, that’s what I have to do to feel great, love my life, be loved, live my dreams?” That is NOT thriving.

That’s working hard to deserve goodness; it’s surviving. Maybe surviving well sometimes, but if the Universe loves me (and you), and dreamt me (and you) into being, there is no way life has to be that hard.

I remember the day 20 years ago that I got so frustrated after taking a personal development program because I started feeling so tired of constantly analyzing and excavating my brokenness. I had been looking at past lives, my relationship with my family, and the perfectionism that dogged me. It all seemed like an endless sea of “why’s.”

That night I had a dream that would change the direction of my path forever. I got to see that the reason I got tired when I excavated and analyzed, was because it’s not the most efficient or effective way to have a great life!! I could spend the rest of my life “working on myself” through energy work, talking, meditating, and so on.

It was then that I realized that the path to actually living an inspired, fulfilling, and meaningful life is not based on our current model of waking up. Big AHA! Having that kind of life is about catching our brain and biology up to a new way of operating, instead of endlessly looking at why we aren’t fully thriving.

Oh, and everything changed. Immediately. That’s when I started studying the physics of thriving in life, mind and body. Who am I to ignore Greater Wisdom’s call?

I have come to realize (through my work as a former nutritionist) that there are patterns of thought that create your biochemistry, and if you don’t change the patterns, life will default to match your beliefs and level of attraction.

Why would we have to continue to shift one belief at a time, or a couple at a time?

Excavating endlessly on the slow track… is that seriously what life is all about? It doesn’t make sense when we know we are not broken and don’t need fixing!

So… if a bunch of thoughts that we think over and over become beliefs, and after collecting evidence for the rightness of the thoughts related to those beliefs, and then a bunch of beliefs when married together become an entirely personal or cultural paradigm, then why don’t we shift perspectives on the whole paradigm, instead of just the beliefs?


  • We are not broken and we don’t need fixing. If you do courses to fix yourself, you will find more to fix.
  • You can transmute thousands of beliefs at a time by Activating instead of excavating.
  • The only way to thrive is to learn how to do it specifically and directly. Anything else is just learning how to survive better through looking at the past.

This is just the beginning of what it means to Get Out of Your Own Way™ … well, truly the Universe’s way.

Just a little something I thought you may want to consider, dear friend!

I’d love to see you in our upcoming Get Out of Your Own Way™ – Spaciousness Yes, Overwhelm No in May. Join us.

With love,

P.S. I share a lot more about shifting paradigms and living with fulfillment in my latest book UNSTUCK; The Physics of Getting Out of Your Own Way. Have you gotten your copy yet? If not, get it here!



This is important for me to remember in these times…

This is important for me to remember in these times…

Years ago, in one of our programs, a dear client talked about a powerful story that is so relevant to what is going on in the world now… about the power and purity of a child in times of great polarity.

She went to Ireland with her family at age seven.

She is Protestant and she went to a beach community of a mainly Catholic village, when, at times, there was still tremendous infighting and violence.

While she was on the beach, a seven-year-old local, red-headed girl would come and play, building sandcastles with her.

After a few days the young Irish girl asked, “Are you Protestant?”, to which my client replied, “Yes, I am.”

The red-head then declared, “Well, I think you are lovely! I don’t understand what the grown-ups are saying.”

My client said, “Me either.”

And the red-headed girl suggested, “Maybe we should hug for a long time until the rest of the world feels it, so that they can all get along.”

My client said, “I think that is a perfect idea!”

And so the two of them hugged for a couple of minutes, hoping that maybe someone would see or feel them getting along, and loving each other despite their differences.

Do you feel them?

In a non-time/space reality, that wave is still going out into consciousness. I choose to feel it and all of its implications, right now.

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The physics of High Holidays for all religions…

The physics of High Holidays for all religions…

First and foremost, HAPPY EARTH DAY. This message is one about our emotional environment these days, because I know that how we feel impacts our motivation to give to “the Great Mother.” And, if you read through to the bottom of this email, I will show you how you can be a member of the Heaven on Earth Construction Crew. But first….

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Here’s a paradigm shift for you… We are family!

Here’s a paradigm shift for you… We are family!

When I was younger, I so wanted to feel like I belonged. I had glasses, acne, was taller than everyone, curly hair, was shy as anything, and I just felt like I wished someone “got” me and saw through the yuck.

Not to mention, I was super curious about physics, because my religion wasn’t giving me answers. Some, but not all. And there were contradictions. In High school, I used to debate spirituality with my Jehovah’s Witness friend, Nora… I still remember her. That was fun for me, since I didn’t fit in with everyone else, much like she didn’t either.

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