What’s possible when we shift in the way we shift…

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“No problem can be solved from
the same level of consciousness that created it.

– Albert Einstein

Here’s what was going on 20 years ago. I had to restrict my food to be healthy, I had to cleanse, I had to work hard on myself to “fix me,” and I had to be a much better person before I got on with my whole purpose. I asked myself, “Seriously, that’s what I have to do to feel great, love my life, be loved, live my dreams?” That is NOT thriving.

That’s working hard to deserve goodness; it’s surviving. Maybe surviving well sometimes, but if the Universe loves me (and you), and dreamt me (and you) into being, there is no way life has to be that hard.

I remember the day 20 years ago that I got so frustrated after taking a personal development program because I started feeling so tired of constantly analyzing and excavating my brokenness. I had been looking at past lives, my relationship with my family, and the perfectionism that dogged me. It all seemed like an endless sea of “why’s.”

That night I had a dream that would change the direction of my path forever. I got to see that the reason I got tired when I excavated and analyzed, was because it’s not the most efficient or effective way to have a great life!! I could spend the rest of my life “working on myself” through energy work, talking, meditating, and so on.

It was then that I realized that the path to actually living an inspired, fulfilling, and meaningful life is not based on our current model of waking up. Big AHA! Having that kind of life is about catching our brain and biology up to a new way of operating, instead of endlessly looking at why we aren’t fully thriving.

Oh, and everything changed. Immediately. That’s when I started studying the physics of thriving in life, mind and body. Who am I to ignore Greater Wisdom’s call?

I have come to realize (through my work as a former nutritionist) that there are patterns of thought that create your biochemistry, and if you don’t change the patterns, life will default to match your beliefs and level of attraction.

Why would we have to continue to shift one belief at a time, or a couple at a time?

Excavating endlessly on the slow track… is that seriously what life is all about? It doesn’t make sense when we know we are not broken and don’t need fixing!

So… if a bunch of thoughts that we think over and over become beliefs, and after collecting evidence for the rightness of the thoughts related to those beliefs, and then a bunch of beliefs when married together become an entirely personal or cultural paradigm, then why don’t we shift perspectives on the whole paradigm, instead of just the beliefs?


  • We are not broken and we don’t need fixing. If you do courses to fix yourself, you will find more to fix.
  • You can transmute thousands of beliefs at a time by Activating instead of excavating.
  • The only way to thrive is to learn how to do it specifically and directly. Anything else is just learning how to survive better through looking at the past.

This is just the beginning of what it means to Get Out of Your Own Way™ … well, truly the Universe’s way.

Just a little something I thought you may want to consider, dear friend!

I’d love to see you in our upcoming Get Out of Your Own Way™ – Spaciousness Yes, Overwhelm No in May. Join us.

With love,

P.S. I share a lot more about shifting paradigms and living with fulfillment in my latest book UNSTUCK; The Physics of Getting Out of Your Own Way. Have you gotten your copy yet? If not, get it here!



An insight about love from my talk last week

An insight about love from my talk last week

I understood more deeply that asking “WHY” love is not happening for you is a way to stay endlessly stuck in a cycle of intellectual examination, and evidence for your perceived lack of deservingness.

WHAT IF… all it takes is curiosity on the adventure?

After all, Life has already landed the answers to HOW loved you are, and all the various ways that it can be expressed.

WHAT IF… all it takes is vigilance for the answers that are waiting for you?

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Let’s talk about FLOW…

Let’s talk about FLOW…

I wanted to share something from the depths of my heart on the subject of FLOW…

You see it’s not just about getting out of your own way. It’s about embodying the operating system for thriving. You can use skills and tools to temporarily get out of the way of your own flow, but the two are not the same thing.

I watch much of humanity asking to feel better from their situation. That’s easy enough to do. There are tools and tricks all day long to do that. Embodiment however, is a whole other animal.

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This doorway matters a lot…

This doorway matters a lot…

What if you’re just a cosmic three-year-old, Aditya, here to play with the resources on Earth, to use all of your abilities, and to expand upon the beauty that already is?

I’m not joking. I first started asking about the meaning of life when I was seven years old. A little precocious, I know, but I was wondering who we were and what the purpose of “all this” was.

What if the entire way you have done what you did now exists for all time in “the field,” and can be accessed metaphysically by all. Likewise, you are able to receive wisdom from everyone else’s experience. Pretty cool, huh?

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