Here’s a paradigm shift for you… We are family!

“The Universe knew exactly who your family would be
before you got here, and that
most of them would not be related to You!

Jennifer Hough

When I was younger, I so wanted to feel like I belonged. I had glasses, acne, was taller than everyone, curly hair, was shy as anything, and I just felt like I wished someone “got” me and saw through the yuck.

Not to mention, I was super curious about physics, because my religion wasn’t giving me answers. Some, but not all. And there were contradictions. In High school, I used to debate spirituality with my Jehovah’s Witness friend, Nora… I still remember her. That was fun for me, since I didn’t fit in with everyone else, much like she didn’t either.

I truly thought I was getting the booby-prize life. The fourth prize. Everyone else who “belonged” was getting the better life. So I would just make do, and make it up as I went. I got straight A’s, not because I was smart, but because I had time.

Little did I know that being sovereign, and fitting “out,” was the key to actually connecting to my greater wisdom sooner than most, because spending my energy trying to figure out social norms to fit in just wasn’t happening. This all led to my having a connection to the Divine, in a way that is not the booby prize. I sure felt like it then, though. Maybe you felt like that? Maybe not. Maybe you were successful at fitting in.

Regardless, I have rarely met anyone in my travels who has not had the feeling of not being seen, understood, or heard.

When times are tense/strained in the world like now, we look for those we feel closest to; feel “seen” by. Often those people are not related to us, as I have found. “Soul family.” (And I adore you, Mom and Dad, so rest easy; and yes, they read my emails.)

Dearest Aditya, God, the Universe, All That Is, Creation knew exactly who your family would be before you got here, and that most of them would not be related to You.

Maybe it’s time to take the pressure off your parents, your siblings, and your guardians to adhere to some “GOD-like” version themselves. Everyone is simply a grown up kid, and if stuff wasn’t worked out in childhood, there is no miracle that happens at 21, when you supposedly become an adult, that makes all that stuff go away. In fact, if you have unproductive coping/protection/control mechanisms, they will only get more well-practiced over time.

We have a lot of expectations.

Our true parent is Creation, which is where we get the silly expectation that fallible humans should be as perfect as Creation is.

So if Creation is your parent and my parent, we are family! Yay!

Because you experienced struggle with those you wished had done better to advise you when you were younger, Creation/theUniverse/God/All That Is sent the answers to those prayers to you in other packages. Look, you’ll see. It came from your friends, good colleagues, great conversion, random earth angels at the airport, and mentors.

For me, being able to shift paradigms so that the whole constellation of associated beliefs about family is super juicy and freeing.

I love having you be with me on the adventure of finding the deeper truths and exploring the spaciousness that creates.

Have you registered yet for Get Out of Your Own Way™ – OVERWHELM NO, SPACIOUSNESS YES?

That’s our theme.

We are diving in together to find freedom from paradigms that confine, confuse, and stop us from flying!

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With love,



This is important for me to remember in these times…

This is important for me to remember in these times…

Years ago, in one of our programs, a dear client talked about a powerful story that is so relevant to what is going on in the world now… about the power and purity of a child in times of great polarity.

She went to Ireland with her family at age seven.

She is Protestant and she went to a beach community of a mainly Catholic village, when, at times, there was still tremendous infighting and violence.

While she was on the beach, a seven-year-old local, red-headed girl would come and play, building sandcastles with her.

After a few days the young Irish girl asked, “Are you Protestant?”, to which my client replied, “Yes, I am.”

The red-head then declared, “Well, I think you are lovely! I don’t understand what the grown-ups are saying.”

My client said, “Me either.”

And the red-headed girl suggested, “Maybe we should hug for a long time until the rest of the world feels it, so that they can all get along.”

My client said, “I think that is a perfect idea!”

And so the two of them hugged for a couple of minutes, hoping that maybe someone would see or feel them getting along, and loving each other despite their differences.

Do you feel them?

In a non-time/space reality, that wave is still going out into consciousness. I choose to feel it and all of its implications, right now.

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The physics of High Holidays for all religions…

The physics of High Holidays for all religions…

First and foremost, HAPPY EARTH DAY. This message is one about our emotional environment these days, because I know that how we feel impacts our motivation to give to “the Great Mother.” And, if you read through to the bottom of this email, I will show you how you can be a member of the Heaven on Earth Construction Crew. But first….

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What’s possible when we shift in the way we shift…

What’s possible when we shift in the way we shift…

Here’s what was going on 20 years ago. I had to restrict my food to be healthy, I had to cleanse, I had to work hard on myself to “fix me,” and I had to be a much better person before I got on with my whole purpose. I asked myself, “Seriously, that’s what I have to do to feel great, love my life, be loved, live my dreams?” That is NOT thriving.

That’s working hard to deserve goodness; it’s surviving. Maybe surviving well sometimes, but if the Universe loves me (and you), and dreamt me (and you) into being, there is no way life has to be that hard.

I remember the day 20 years ago that I got so frustrated after taking a personal development program because I started feeling so tired of constantly analyzing and excavating my brokenness. I had been looking at past lives, my relationship with my family, and the perfectionism that dogged me. It all seemed like an endless sea of “why’s.”

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