Are you leaving space for the miraculous?

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“All of your dreams matter so much to the rest of us.
You are an answer to someone’s asking…
that dream deserves the space to breathe and become clear.

Jennifer Hough

I’m not sure if anyone ever truly gets that I am definitely in the programs that I teach, even though I am facilitating. And I am! Half the things that get discussed are perfectly suited for helping me find more freedom, meaning, and flow, too. Saturday’s Get Out of Your Own Way™ program was no exception.

Sunday I woke up with my head stuffy, feeling heated, and an achy body. Uh oh. Adam just had the c-flu; maybe I have it, too?

Instead of stressing, I actually did exactly what we talked about in the program. I used the exercises to get entirely neutral. It’s not like life isn’t stressful sometimes for me… it is.

I also realized that we were experiencing a full moon, a lunar eclipse, and a big life-changing program had just completed.

What did I do? I drove my car to the river. I found a rock that was perfect for me to lie on. It was heated by the sun, it was away from anyone, and it was mine.

I found a comfy way to lie on it, as the water trickled by me, with smells and sounds that soothed. I started sweating, and the warmth caused me to fall asleep. For an hour. On a rock. In the river. By myself.

Talk about Spaciousness.

By the time I woke up, I was no longer sweating, but I still had sinus pressure.

Next, I drove to the top of a mountain near me. It was so gorgeous.

I picked up lunch for the family, waiting at home, and then went to bed for 2.5 hours.

When I woke up there was no sinus, no stuffiness, no sweating, and I was feeling entirely energized.

A couple of profound words came to me that I needed to share with my sweetie, with whom I hadn’t shared any words all day. The conversation ended with such appreciation for him.

I made a phone call to someone I love, and appreciated them. And, I got very clear about my week. None of which would have happened if I had stayed in the fret, worry and space I was in when I first woke up.

That is the power of pausing for space.

My life matters that much. All of your dreams matter that much to the rest of us. You are an answer to someone’s asking. That dream deserves the space to breathe and become clear.

So does yours.

With much love and reverence for your journey, and the piece of the puzzle of Heaven on Earth that you are.

I know that the interviews below (especially in the area of relationships and resolving chaos) will truly assist you. Save the dates and put them on your calendar!

With love,



Solar eclipses, opportunities to choose, and trying times…

Solar eclipses, opportunities to choose, and trying times…

While I was with my parents in Bracebridge, Ontario, having a late Thanksgiving, miracles abounded.

My sisters and I had a beautiful conversation with our parents. This time of their life is so interesting for all of us. I am constantly speaking with their higher selves to make sure my connection with them is strong, I love them so.

I appreciate that I am skilled at communicating on many plains of existence.

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A dear friend asked what do we do with the evil in the world…

A dear friend asked what do we do with the evil in the world…

A dear friend recently asked me what do we do with the evil in the world.

Well, first we have to define evil. I find the word ‘evil’ does not express what is going on within the people who commit the acts causing such great upset. Any combination of the following may have happened to them, leading to actions described as ‘evil’.

Disenfranchisement, loneliness, abuse, severe disempowerment, lack of faith in love and communication based on their past, poverty, and therefore vulnerability, indoctrination by others who have felt the same, trying to find a place to belong, being heard, an expression of the deep resentment and anger they have internally for all the unfairness they perceive. It is coupled, or should I say fuelled, by a sprinkling of righteousness on all sides.

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A book that is so special to me…

A book that is so special to me…

The other day I was in my sauna, sweating my brains out because my body had been in pain. I was listening to the book ‘Braiding Sweetgrass’. It’s brilliant. The first time I read it, I wasn’t able to take in the full magnificence of the words within. I was in a different place.

We’ve just had our Canadian Thanksgiving, the Shadow of American Thanksgiving which follows in November.

I was listening to the story of how important nuts were to those tribes that lived on the prairies and in the forest. They would store nuts, much like wise squirrels and chipmunks do because they contain protein and good fats for the winter.

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