Are you leaving space for the miraculous?

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“All of your dreams matter so much to the rest of us.
You are an answer to someone’s asking…
that dream deserves the space to breathe and become clear.

Jennifer Hough

I’m not sure if anyone ever truly gets that I am definitely in the programs that I teach, even though I am facilitating. And I am! Half the things that get discussed are perfectly suited for helping me find more freedom, meaning, and flow, too. Saturday’s Get Out of Your Own Way™ program was no exception.

Sunday I woke up with my head stuffy, feeling heated, and an achy body. Uh oh. Adam just had the c-flu; maybe I have it, too?

Instead of stressing, I actually did exactly what we talked about in the program. I used the exercises to get entirely neutral. It’s not like life isn’t stressful sometimes for me… it is.

I also realized that we were experiencing a full moon, a lunar eclipse, and a big life-changing program had just completed.

What did I do? I drove my car to the river. I found a rock that was perfect for me to lie on. It was heated by the sun, it was away from anyone, and it was mine.

I found a comfy way to lie on it, as the water trickled by me, with smells and sounds that soothed. I started sweating, and the warmth caused me to fall asleep. For an hour. On a rock. In the river. By myself.

Talk about Spaciousness.

By the time I woke up, I was no longer sweating, but I still had sinus pressure.

Next, I drove to the top of a mountain near me. It was so gorgeous.

I picked up lunch for the family, waiting at home, and then went to bed for 2.5 hours.

When I woke up there was no sinus, no stuffiness, no sweating, and I was feeling entirely energized.

A couple of profound words came to me that I needed to share with my sweetie, with whom I hadn’t shared any words all day. The conversation ended with such appreciation for him.

I made a phone call to someone I love, and appreciated them. And, I got very clear about my week. None of which would have happened if I had stayed in the fret, worry and space I was in when I first woke up.

That is the power of pausing for space.

My life matters that much. All of your dreams matter that much to the rest of us. You are an answer to someone’s asking. That dream deserves the space to breathe and become clear.

So does yours.

With much love and reverence for your journey, and the piece of the puzzle of Heaven on Earth that you are.

I know that the interviews below (especially in the area of relationships and resolving chaos) will truly assist you. Save the dates and put them on your calendar!

With love,



An insight about love from my talk last week

An insight about love from my talk last week

I understood more deeply that asking “WHY” love is not happening for you is a way to stay endlessly stuck in a cycle of intellectual examination, and evidence for your perceived lack of deservingness.

WHAT IF… all it takes is curiosity on the adventure?

After all, Life has already landed the answers to HOW loved you are, and all the various ways that it can be expressed.

WHAT IF… all it takes is vigilance for the answers that are waiting for you?

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Let’s talk about FLOW…

Let’s talk about FLOW…

I wanted to share something from the depths of my heart on the subject of FLOW…

You see it’s not just about getting out of your own way. It’s about embodying the operating system for thriving. You can use skills and tools to temporarily get out of the way of your own flow, but the two are not the same thing.

I watch much of humanity asking to feel better from their situation. That’s easy enough to do. There are tools and tricks all day long to do that. Embodiment however, is a whole other animal.

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This doorway matters a lot…

This doorway matters a lot…

What if you’re just a cosmic three-year-old, Aditya, here to play with the resources on Earth, to use all of your abilities, and to expand upon the beauty that already is?

I’m not joking. I first started asking about the meaning of life when I was seven years old. A little precocious, I know, but I was wondering who we were and what the purpose of “all this” was.

What if the entire way you have done what you did now exists for all time in “the field,” and can be accessed metaphysically by all. Likewise, you are able to receive wisdom from everyone else’s experience. Pretty cool, huh?

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