One word… Change!

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“When I come back to who I am, why I am here,
and truly honor my courage and heart’s calling,
I know that all is well in the much greater sense.

Jennifer Hough

I thought that I was actually pretty good with moving through change, but the other night I realized that maybe I’m not as good at change as I thought. Big and new ideas are coming forward; my heart’s calling is LOUD.

The following morning, yet another big change happened, and I found myself both looking forward and transmuting the energy of the “shoulda, coulda, wouldas” at the same time. When that happens, I need space for it all to process so that I don’t force myself out of the unfamiliarity too fast. I mean, it’s the one constant, so wanting things to stand still is a surefire way to go backward, given that life is always expanding forward. I just know that everything right now is speeding up. Incongruent processes, relationships and projects are being rewired, or let go at a pace greater than ever before.

Do you have a personal operating system that allows you to flow through it all, and experience results that feel expansive?

I am constantly upgrading the way I plug into change, and even that is another constant change. LOL! I didn’t realize how important that was until recently. Especially right now in our history. Sometimes things need to break apart to come back together.

People leave.
Relationships change.
The tree gets shaken.

I, for one, don’t particularly love that experience (or at least my personality doesn’t), and I also know that it’s all happening for me and for all concerned. Ya, I get to learn stuff. Ya, I am not perfect. Ya, I get to have grace when I blame myself, or wish I had done things better… blah, blah, blah. It still sucks sometimes. Then at some point, it doesn’t suck anymore, and I get to experience the world that opens up because of the change.

A while back, I remember a project taking a serious left turn, but the results were so incredible, I was humbled. Somebody stepped up and just gave of their creative energy. I had to just receive and say “thank you.” Most importantly, that’s when I really, really, really started to fall in love with the unknown. I think that is the key ingredient for me in thriving forward: Having a love affair with the glorious unknown.

I just feel like every aspect of life is up for an upgrade lately, don’t you? It’s certainly happening for me personally, and in my business. It feels like my life is just a microcosm of the greater macrocosm of the world right now.

When I come back to who I am, why I am here, and truly honor my courage and heart’s calling, I know that all is well in the much greater sense.

Big love,



Things are never as they seem…

Things are never as they seem…

Things are never as they seem. This picture is not a sunset but the view from Craggy Gardens in Asheville on Saturday night. It’s what the Northern Lights look like from afar down here in the South. So cool.

On Friday, I met with a dear client and friend who has serious PTSD; I have many clients who suffer with this. As there is an underlying sense of a lack of safety, people may bite or be abrupt. This may sometimes tip into what feels like meanness but is a form of self-protection.

Recently, I’ve been celebrating when I notice shifts. One, in particular, I don’t think I’ve ever celebrated or shared with you, so here goes!

This time, instead of engaging, trying to fix things, or trying to make my client feel better, I simply found neutrality. Sometimes I didn’t respond for days, or even weeks, and let it all breathe. I gave it space for higher levels to work it out. As always when there is spaciousness, it all comes back around to love.

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Stay with me on this…

Stay with me on this…

‘Or betters’ present frequently when we simply remember ourselves as the embodied intention of everything we’ve ever lived in any life. They manifest when we remember our free will to choose, realizing our trajectory is the result of every past life, every desire, and every prayer you have ever prayed.

‘Or betters’ happen when you live like control is overrated. Understanding the resources of the omnipotent and omniscient Creation will deliver for you so far beyond anything your lovely (please don’t hate me) pea brain can intend is key. Your brain only accesses your history, the programs you learnt in school and paradigms you’ve created through the years, and who wants to ‘rinse and repeat’ that again?

Your greater Wisdom is constantly dancing with the trajectory you are on. You’re a living intention, without ever needing to use your brain to intend. Infinite Wisdom is in a dance with you, responding to your every thought and, perhaps ever more, to your actions. It’s responding to your life’s purpose. The thing is, you can’t mentally intend your way to an awesome life.

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My two favorite words…

My two favorite words…

When our actions resonate with our purpose and we’re aligned with the Universe’s potential for us, it’s such an expansive feeling.

The feeling of expansiveness validates you are in flow.

The alignment with greater wisdom is translated through our body as feelings of ‘woo hoo’, ‘yes!’, goosebumps, or fun! It’s confirmation that we’re acting and thinking in line with our ‘highest and best’ life, using our skills and personality, creating in the most aligned way.

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