It’s easy for me to disconnect from my future


“It is so disempowering to our partners,
and those we love, to not know that ‘they have this’.

Jennifer Hough


I want to share with you this week a recent experience with my sweetie about staying connected to others, and what good is that if you are not connected to yourself!

His back has been really hurting him lately, and he is doing so much to ensure he makes his connection to his body, the future he wants, and his guidance.

When he is in pain, it’s easy for me to disconnect from my future, my guidance and my heart because I worry. Which, of course, doesn’t last very long (minutes, in fact) because you know what I know… that it is so disempowering to our partners and those we love to not know “they have this.”

In fact, worrying has the opposite result from the one I desire, which is that he finds his way to healing and health. My worry tells consciousness that I don’t trust his connection, nor does he have his own ability to heal.

So what’s there to do instead? Well, there’s working in the backyard, going for a walk, writing this article, and/or being in forward-facing meetings.

It’s all considered time spent activating my future in the now, and I am excited for what is to come.

I will share that with Adam as well, when he is in receiving mode.

BE a powerful champion of your vibration… face forward… never mind what is going on with another, unless they ask.

In the meantime, KNOW THAT THEY HAVE THIS!!!

With love,
Jennifer
xoxoxo


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