It never gets old!

“I had been acting like NOW was less optimal,
and WHAT’S OVER THERE is better. NOPE.

Jennifer Hough

What a day full of rain showed me as I walked up to the top of a hill to do my daily evening practice…

Once I was at the top of the hill, I noticed in the distance were the mountains to the left and clouds that had spent a whole week here, were moving away. The sun was peeping through as it was going down. The rays of light were spectacular on the mountains.

On the right-hand side of this mountain ridge was the last little bit of cloud and fog. It was low and heavy while still spitting rain a little. The low clouds were moving in, to let out their last blast of moisture, as I was walking home, and still, in the distance on the left, it was so obvious that the skies were on their way to clearing up from the greater perspective of what is to come.

It made me smile.

It felt like a metaphor for what is going on right now in life, in the world, and certainly in my relationship with Adam and my business.

Then I heard this little voice say, “The clearing into the distance, and the beauty of that sunset, are happening right now, and the clouds haven’t disappeared.” What did that mean?


1. Clouds provide rain, nourishment and clear the air… and that is just as beautiful.

“No matter what I go through, it is all life, and to be alive is glorious with all of its experiences. There is no “perfect looking” life, there is only a rich one.”

2. The clearing wasn’t better than the clouds; it was in concert with the clouds. The clouds weren’t “less than.” It didn’t matter that the clear skies were over there, or how incredible the sunset was. The clouds that remained provided the contrast for one of the most WOW visions I had ever seen. That vision was happening right then and there.

“There is no good or bad. There is just experience that is communicating. You may have a rash on your skin, but that rash tells you that you are tired, and you got sensitive to grass for a day because you didn’t take care of yourself. That is just a communication for which to be grateful.”

3. The sunset was ridiculously gorgeous but it wasn’t in the distance. In a time-space reality, it was right there, right then. It was simultaneously happening. I had been acting like NOW was less optimal, and WHAT’S OVER THERE is better. NOPE! The sunset, in all its glory, only happened because of all that had been happening all that day, and sunsets are always on the horizon. But we witness them right now!

“I got to choose the beauty of that sunset that was happening in the now, to be in my experience now. Not some amazing day that was going to happen tomorrow, and I’d have to survive this suboptimal now, with a little rain. If I could see it, my body had access to all the richness of the future potential now, along with the richness of the clouds that I could almost touch, and the moisture on my skin.”

I had an instant body rush. You know those moments where you remember that being alive is the real gift, and you feel it in your cells at a whole new level? Colors are brighter, love is deeper, and you feel as though you might not even need sleep tonight.

Here’s the “or better” question to ask ourselves:


Because I get to say. I am sovereign. It is my brain, my consciousness. My choice. I am a victim of NOTHING.

That is why ANYTHING is possible for your life.

You ALWAYS have access to the beauty of now. Even if it seems hard. One little brain switch, an attention switch, can change everything.

BUT YOU MUST take space to actually access that.

For April and May, I hadn’t taken as much space for myself away from the house. Space in your life is like a metaphor for the space between the atoms of this 3D reality. That is where possibility lives. Literally, the metaphysical space, which has not yet landed in physical form.

Realizations that change my day, week, or life, require the space to receive them. Mostly for me that is a walk, or a hike, or a bike, or something outside. For some, it is meditation in a sacred room, or at an altar.

So know that anything you want is available now. It takes space.

It doesn’t matter if your desire is actually happening right now, it just matters that your body can feel it. If your body can feel it, you are generating the chemistry that lines you up with all the steps. The richness of life is gleaned from those unfolding steps and the creativity of following the call of what’s inside you.

If you never take space, you will always struggle, because you’ll be living in the auto-pilot of shoulds, musts, and have-to’s. You will live life by rote, instead of being LIVED BY A DREAM.

That is a huge part of resetting your adrenals, by the way. Your body will always let you know if you are in the flow of your most delicious path.

So happy to be beside you on the way!

With love,

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‘Or betters’ are what happen when we…

‘Or betters’ are what happen when we…

‘Or betters’ present frequently when we simply remember ourselves as the embodied intention of everything we’ve ever lived in any life. They manifest when we remember our free will to choose, realizing our trajectory is the result of every past life, every desire, and every prayer you have ever prayed.

‘Or betters’ happen when you live like control is overrated. Understanding the resources of the omnipotent and omniscient Creation will deliver for you so far beyond anything your lovely (please don’t hate me) pea brain can intend is key. Your brain only accesses your history, the programs you learnt in school and paradigms you’ve created through the years, and who wants to ‘rinse and repeat’ that again?

Your greater Wisdom is constantly dancing with the trajectory you are on. You’re a living intention, without ever needing to use your brain to intend. Infinite Wisdom is in a dance with you, responding to your every thought and, perhaps ever more, to your actions. It’s responding to your life’s purpose. The thing is, you can’t mentally intend your way to an awesome life.

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Sometimes change feels scary to go through…

Sometimes change feels scary to go through…

What part of us is scared of change? It’s the part that has to die for the expanded version to become the new YOU, able to sustain the dream you’re dreaming.

The true infinite soul of us does not die, so YOU are not afraid to die. It’s the part of you that feels comfy, familiar and predictable that’s afraid. Personally, distinguishing between the true ME and the identities or aspects of my personality trying to protect me gives me some solace, lessening my need for courage.

On the other hand, what is this internal need to follow my heart?
To make dreams/imaginings/potential creations come to reality?
Do you feel that? Am I alone here? I don’t think so.

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Getting back into flow … and what it takes.

Getting back into flow … and what it takes.

So often in the past, I’ve let myself become overly excited about the possibilities in my life. Equally, sometimes I have and still do let my mind run away with scary possible futures, or at least they feel scary in the moment. Either way, if I let my emotional reaction run away from me, it takes me out of my presence.

At the moment, I’m looking at my body and health and I feel that my body could be more fit than ever! This could also apply to my business, relationship, money or even my dog! Recently, I’ve caught myself becoming too involved in my emotions about the future, taking me out of the present moment where the redirections, clarity and expansive solutions are.

It used to be extremely hard to get myself back to neutral. I’m so blessed that it’s not really a roller coaster anymore but more an expansive ride forward, up and out. I’ve found that the shorter the time I spend being involved in or fascinated by my emotions, or my reaction to opinion about what’s going on, the more quickly I’ll receive answers and solutions.

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