From the Wide Awakening Weekly, August 12, 2014 – The Cure for Carrying…
“You attempting to feel more comfortable by asking
family or friends to do things ‘your way,’ is about you.
You setting your family and friends free to
figure out ‘their way,’ is about love.”
~ Jennifer Hough (Tweetable)
Recently it came to my attention that maybe (just maybe) I was carrying my sweetie pie, Adam. How? Well, I was concerning myself with an aspect of his life that I happen to know a lot about.
Then I remembered, there is not a person alive who does not have the same capacity to connect to infinite wisdom as I do… and at least as many guides and angels.
Carrying is when we worry about another’s life. Often the underlying message that the other feels is that you’re afraid they don’t have the resources to get the answers themselves.
Caring is when you love them without conditions or needing to change them.
In the end, still do what your heart calls you to do, but be very aware of whether it’s about you. It’s hard for others to hear their internal guidance through the drone of your thoughts about their life.
Live YOUR own life! It’s more productive and way more funner.
P. S. Don’tcha have enough on your plate?
If this resonates for you, maybe it will for your friends, too…
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