Heart breaking, yet still possible!

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“There is absolutely NO value in stirring the pot,
or talking about things that you know are going to cause polarity.
If you desire a better world and life,
this is a time for bridge building, not wall building.”

Jennifer Hough

After a week of hearing from friends and family about polarizing posts online, from every side of every issue, I thought I might offer a heartfelt bridge to a more freeing, empowering perspective.

It can seem hard, can’t it? Kinda breaks my heart to see so many families, friends and lovers arguing about all the “charged” subjects flying around social media.

The laws of physics say that if you argue for your opinion because you are afraid, you are activating everything you are afraid of.

The laws of physics also say that if you are attached to any opinion being the truth, then the evidence for that point of view will be magnetic to you. Your point of view will seem so true; hence, deep polarity between people right now.

But is that the reason why there is polarity? NOOOOO!!

FIRST, the choice to deliberately engage subjects that cause division, without being a highly skilled communicator, is a choice to activate more of what is not wanted. Period.

(And even being a highly skilled communicator is often not enough for what is going on between people right now).

SECOND, pushing against anything takes away your freedom TO FULLY BE who you are, and remain in your thriving flow. THAT is the only freedom that exists. In physics, there is always a way to receive what you desire. Always. If you are holding someone else responsible for your suffering, there is no way for possibility to show up for you, because you are telling consciousness that THEY are the reason you aren’t thriving. And so it is, says consciousness.


It’s not about what you do or don’t do; it is not about what someone else says, believes or does. This is about you staying in your flow. Being in your groove. Living in the overflow you deserve.

THE LAWS OF PHYSICS SAY that if we each do that, and stay in our heart, and stay in our presence and act accordingly, that we will find our way home, both individually and collectively.

If you want to use someone else as your excuse to disconnect from “all that is,” infinite wisdom, and that which allows you to flourish, then you may. You have free will to do so. However, that will instantly put you in the tornado of polarity and stop you from being magnetic to what you desire and what would make you flourish. And, you are in no way adding to this being a better world at the same time.

To all of my friends on every side of every issue, you know that I love you. The reason we hang out as friends and family has nothing to do with your points of view. It has to do with your heart, your passion, and your yearning that the world could be a better place.

I am so appreciative of your willingness to dance with it all.

With love,


I spent a good portion of my childhood trying to be enough.

I spent a good portion of my childhood trying to be enough.

Worthiness. I spent a good portion of my childhood trying to be enough.

How about you?

Every time you seek to prove your worth, you are coming from a place that presumes that you’re somehow lacking.

You were literally an etheric metaphysical being, who poured into a body in perfect timing. You are a meat suit flying through space at 55,000 miles per hour while miraculously housing a soul and spirit. You witness sunsets, mountain tops, births, deaths. You breathe the air that trillions of trees breathe out just for you!

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Fears and freedom

Fears and freedom

The other morning, as I was pulling out an old plant that took up a lot of room and was on its way out, I heard the bell from the Baptist church down the road, at the same time as I caught a glimpse of the peonies I was planting to replace the old bush.

I love peonies. They remind me of Canada and my front yard. They take me to an emotional home place. That’s why I’m planting them. I keep imagining seeing the peonies while I’m sitting on my front porch.

At the gathering place down the road, the minister is impassioned and talks very loudly. Sometimes, he’s incredibly inspiring and I just stand outside on the road and listen, while at others when he talks about the challenging aspects of humanity, there’s fear within the church. I speak at many churches, so this isn’t about making church wrong, but rather the idea that most of humanity spends time finger-pointing.

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My heart is so full of blessings…

My heart is so full of blessings…

After a rich and vibrant time in the Embodiment Workshop in Asheville, my heart is so full of blessings.

I’m so grateful for the participants, the TWA Team, and so incredibly blessed to have opulence everywhere around me in my garden. Not only for the lettuce, but the seeds for new lettuce. It’s truly overflowing …

I’m grateful for all the shifts and clarity that happened for both myself, and collectively, and wanted to share something with you…

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