Heart breaking, yet still possible!

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“There is absolutely NO value in stirring the pot,
or talking about things that you know are going to cause polarity.
If you desire a better world and life,
this is a time for bridge building, not wall building.”

Jennifer Hough

After a week of hearing from friends and family about polarizing posts online, from every side of every issue, I thought I might offer a heartfelt bridge to a more freeing, empowering perspective.

It can seem hard, can’t it? Kinda breaks my heart to see so many families, friends and lovers arguing about all the “charged” subjects flying around social media.

The laws of physics say that if you argue for your opinion because you are afraid, you are activating everything you are afraid of.

The laws of physics also say that if you are attached to any opinion being the truth, then the evidence for that point of view will be magnetic to you. Your point of view will seem so true; hence, deep polarity between people right now.

But is that the reason why there is polarity? NOOOOO!!

FIRST, the choice to deliberately engage subjects that cause division, without being a highly skilled communicator, is a choice to activate more of what is not wanted. Period.

(And even being a highly skilled communicator is often not enough for what is going on between people right now).

SECOND, pushing against anything takes away your freedom TO FULLY BE who you are, and remain in your thriving flow. THAT is the only freedom that exists. In physics, there is always a way to receive what you desire. Always. If you are holding someone else responsible for your suffering, there is no way for possibility to show up for you, because you are telling consciousness that THEY are the reason you aren’t thriving. And so it is, says consciousness.


It’s not about what you do or don’t do; it is not about what someone else says, believes or does. This is about you staying in your flow. Being in your groove. Living in the overflow you deserve.

THE LAWS OF PHYSICS SAY that if we each do that, and stay in our heart, and stay in our presence and act accordingly, that we will find our way home, both individually and collectively.

If you want to use someone else as your excuse to disconnect from “all that is,” infinite wisdom, and that which allows you to flourish, then you may. You have free will to do so. However, that will instantly put you in the tornado of polarity and stop you from being magnetic to what you desire and what would make you flourish. And, you are in no way adding to this being a better world at the same time.

To all of my friends on every side of every issue, you know that I love you. The reason we hang out as friends and family has nothing to do with your points of view. It has to do with your heart, your passion, and your yearning that the world could be a better place.

I am so appreciative of your willingness to dance with it all.

With love,


Solar eclipses, opportunities to choose, and trying times…

Solar eclipses, opportunities to choose, and trying times…

While I was with my parents in Bracebridge, Ontario, having a late Thanksgiving, miracles abounded.

My sisters and I had a beautiful conversation with our parents. This time of their life is so interesting for all of us. I am constantly speaking with their higher selves to make sure my connection with them is strong, I love them so.

I appreciate that I am skilled at communicating on many plains of existence.

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A dear friend asked what do we do with the evil in the world…

A dear friend asked what do we do with the evil in the world…

A dear friend recently asked me what do we do with the evil in the world.

Well, first we have to define evil. I find the word ‘evil’ does not express what is going on within the people who commit the acts causing such great upset. Any combination of the following may have happened to them, leading to actions described as ‘evil’.

Disenfranchisement, loneliness, abuse, severe disempowerment, lack of faith in love and communication based on their past, poverty, and therefore vulnerability, indoctrination by others who have felt the same, trying to find a place to belong, being heard, an expression of the deep resentment and anger they have internally for all the unfairness they perceive. It is coupled, or should I say fuelled, by a sprinkling of righteousness on all sides.

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A book that is so special to me…

A book that is so special to me…

The other day I was in my sauna, sweating my brains out because my body had been in pain. I was listening to the book ‘Braiding Sweetgrass’. It’s brilliant. The first time I read it, I wasn’t able to take in the full magnificence of the words within. I was in a different place.

We’ve just had our Canadian Thanksgiving, the Shadow of American Thanksgiving which follows in November.

I was listening to the story of how important nuts were to those tribes that lived on the prairies and in the forest. They would store nuts, much like wise squirrels and chipmunks do because they contain protein and good fats for the winter.

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