Heart breaking, yet still possible!

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“There is absolutely NO value in stirring the pot,
or talking about things that you know are going to cause polarity.
If you desire a better world and life,
this is a time for bridge building, not wall building.”

Jennifer Hough

After a week of hearing from friends and family about polarizing posts online, from every side of every issue, I thought I might offer a heartfelt bridge to a more freeing, empowering perspective.

It can seem hard, can’t it? Kinda breaks my heart to see so many families, friends and lovers arguing about all the “charged” subjects flying around social media.

The laws of physics say that if you argue for your opinion because you are afraid, you are activating everything you are afraid of.

The laws of physics also say that if you are attached to any opinion being the truth, then the evidence for that point of view will be magnetic to you. Your point of view will seem so true; hence, deep polarity between people right now.

But is that the reason why there is polarity? NOOOOO!!

FIRST, the choice to deliberately engage subjects that cause division, without being a highly skilled communicator, is a choice to activate more of what is not wanted. Period.

(And even being a highly skilled communicator is often not enough for what is going on between people right now).

SECOND, pushing against anything takes away your freedom TO FULLY BE who you are, and remain in your thriving flow. THAT is the only freedom that exists. In physics, there is always a way to receive what you desire. Always. If you are holding someone else responsible for your suffering, there is no way for possibility to show up for you, because you are telling consciousness that THEY are the reason you aren’t thriving. And so it is, says consciousness.


It’s not about what you do or don’t do; it is not about what someone else says, believes or does. This is about you staying in your flow. Being in your groove. Living in the overflow you deserve.

THE LAWS OF PHYSICS SAY that if we each do that, and stay in our heart, and stay in our presence and act accordingly, that we will find our way home, both individually and collectively.

If you want to use someone else as your excuse to disconnect from “all that is,” infinite wisdom, and that which allows you to flourish, then you may. You have free will to do so. However, that will instantly put you in the tornado of polarity and stop you from being magnetic to what you desire and what would make you flourish. And, you are in no way adding to this being a better world at the same time.

To all of my friends on every side of every issue, you know that I love you. The reason we hang out as friends and family has nothing to do with your points of view. It has to do with your heart, your passion, and your yearning that the world could be a better place.

I am so appreciative of your willingness to dance with it all.

With love,


It seems scary to go through change…

It seems scary to go through change…

It seems scary to go through change. For me, just as much as anyone else.The question is, which part is scared? It’s the part that has to die for the expanded version to become the new you, able to sustain the dream you’re dreaming.

Our true infinite soul never dies, so YOU are not afraid to die, but rather the part of you that feels comfy, familiar and predictable.

Somehow, for me personally, distinguishing between the true ME and the identities (aspects of my personality) that are trying to protect me gives me a little solace and lessens my need for courage.

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Permanent shifts in your cells and what it takes…

Permanent shifts in your cells and what it takes…

The topic of shifting your default way of being, is near and dear to me because I realized I take it for granted that people fully understand it but have realized they don’t. I really appreciated a recent conversation with a member of our community. It brought home to me that most people don’t relate to permanent shifts because either they don’t believe they’re possible, or feel what they have is their lot in life.

Actually, this is where my parents were. I probably could do it a lot better, but I can’t have that, that quantum leaping thing. Do you know what I mean Aditya ?

When I look at people who effortlessly receive abundance, they seem to have the DNA of being able to dance with money in a way you’ve never experienced. How do you make that permanent shift?

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You and your guidance as one…

You and your guidance as one…

“That title, “You and your guidance as one,” is a bit of a misconception. It presumes that you and your guidance are somehow separate from each other in the first place. The truth is, your guidance is present in this and every moment, even if you’re not aware of it. Back in Chapter 1, I wrote that in a fractal Universe, the Wisdom of all that exists is actually hidden in plain sight in the patterns in nature and all around you. In every atom is the information of the original atoms from which they were birthed. Let’s take time to visit the space between the atoms where possibility lives by meditating or going for a walk in nature. There is “a field where we can meet,” where all knowledge rests that allows us to create that which has never been before. And we are made of those patterns, those atoms, and those spaces between the atoms. That wisdom is a part of us at every level.

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