A dear friend asked what do we do with the evil in the world…

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“I find the word evil does not express what is going on internally
regarding the people who commit the acts about which we get upset.

Jennifer Hough

A dear friend recently asked me what do we do with the evil in the world.

Well, first we have to define evil. I find the word ‘evil’ does not express what is going on within the people who commit the acts causing such great upset. Any combination of the following may have happened to them, leading to actions described as ‘evil’.

Disenfranchisement, loneliness, abuse, severe disempowerment, lack of faith in love and communication based on their past, poverty, and therefore vulnerability, indoctrination by others who have felt the same, trying to find a place to belong, being heard, an expression of the deep resentment and anger they have internally for all the unfairness they perceive. It is coupled, or should I say fuelled, by a sprinkling of righteousness on all sides.

Ultimately, I only say this to offer that we focus on the big picture of what we can do to change the environment in which the entire human family exists. Ya, I know, biting off a big chunk there. But really? What choice do we have but to take on the dreams that are dreaming us; the very dreams that allow us to make a difference to our neighbor, community and countries, a little at a time. THAT’S BIG PICTURE. WE MUST WAKE UP.

Small picture, every day, coming back to our own hearts, minds, sense of empowerment, internal barometer and so on, to BE THE CHANGE.

Metaphysically, this is the biggest thing we can do, because in a fractal Universe, and a biophoton connected society, we can affect big, big change.

May we all be catalyzed to do and be all that we came here to do and be. May we have compassion for those who feel this disenfranchised by life while, in the meantime, building systems that deal with the heinous acts and the deprogramming of indoctrination.

It feels like more than one country could use a little of that medicine today.

The disease for me, is not in the people who commit these acts, it is in the world that would create an environment where people would separate and hate each other this deeply. We all came from the same place. At this point, in my mind we have to think big, as we are not on the ground. And more war, just begets more separation and less understanding.

We have to watch the war in our minds and hearts as well.

Being against another is not the solution, the only solution to change the world that I can see at this point is to create movements that include everyone, and which need to have visions that transcend any polarity and are available to every heart.

These movements must be bigger than current circumstances in the world.

People are looking to join, as long as it isn’t yet another politically affiliated movement, or more ‘right and wrong’ is going to happen.

Just my ramblings … thought they might hit home? Shake some fruit loose? Catalyze a deeper conversation?

Eclipses provide interesting timing and opportunities to re-choose a different future for ourselves, individually and collectively. I am ready to move forward on some global ideas that I’ve been chewing on with global thinkers.


And please, no political rhetoric. I’m not interested in side-ism. I’m interested in solutions that work for everyone.

With love,



Things are never as they seem…

Things are never as they seem…

Things are never as they seem. This picture is not a sunset but the view from Craggy Gardens in Asheville on Saturday night. It’s what the Northern Lights look like from afar down here in the South. So cool.

On Friday, I met with a dear client and friend who has serious PTSD; I have many clients who suffer with this. As there is an underlying sense of a lack of safety, people may bite or be abrupt. This may sometimes tip into what feels like meanness but is a form of self-protection.

Recently, I’ve been celebrating when I notice shifts. One, in particular, I don’t think I’ve ever celebrated or shared with you, so here goes!

This time, instead of engaging, trying to fix things, or trying to make my client feel better, I simply found neutrality. Sometimes I didn’t respond for days, or even weeks, and let it all breathe. I gave it space for higher levels to work it out. As always when there is spaciousness, it all comes back around to love.

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Stay with me on this…

Stay with me on this…

‘Or betters’ present frequently when we simply remember ourselves as the embodied intention of everything we’ve ever lived in any life. They manifest when we remember our free will to choose, realizing our trajectory is the result of every past life, every desire, and every prayer you have ever prayed.

‘Or betters’ happen when you live like control is overrated. Understanding the resources of the omnipotent and omniscient Creation will deliver for you so far beyond anything your lovely (please don’t hate me) pea brain can intend is key. Your brain only accesses your history, the programs you learnt in school and paradigms you’ve created through the years, and who wants to ‘rinse and repeat’ that again?

Your greater Wisdom is constantly dancing with the trajectory you are on. You’re a living intention, without ever needing to use your brain to intend. Infinite Wisdom is in a dance with you, responding to your every thought and, perhaps ever more, to your actions. It’s responding to your life’s purpose. The thing is, you can’t mentally intend your way to an awesome life.

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My two favorite words…

My two favorite words…

When our actions resonate with our purpose and we’re aligned with the Universe’s potential for us, it’s such an expansive feeling.

The feeling of expansiveness validates you are in flow.

The alignment with greater wisdom is translated through our body as feelings of ‘woo hoo’, ‘yes!’, goosebumps, or fun! It’s confirmation that we’re acting and thinking in line with our ‘highest and best’ life, using our skills and personality, creating in the most aligned way.

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