Is this you?

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“Let those you love know that they have ‘got this;’
that they have their own connection and their evolution is inevitable.
They are not broken and your soul does not live through their body!

The feeling you have inside of wanting to fix it is your personality
wanting to feel better YOURSELF about them.
It’s not about caring or having compassion for them.”

Jennifer Hough

I cannot emphasize enough, how important it is these days to choose your words well.


These are times when it is so easy to be taken out by the smallest conversation, the tiniest trigger, the most seemingly obscure event. The other day, I could have easily engaged someone else’s upset, and had a feeling of wanting to defend. I chose not to go there.


Because I realized that when someone in my life is having a really bad day, and I desperately want to fix it, my words and actions demonstrate and reflect my own discomfort, or that they need fixing, thus conveying to my friend/client/loved one that they are broken.

What I know as a deeper truth is to let my teammate, friend, or loved one know that they have “got this.” They have their own wisdom, and their evolution is inevitable. My soul does not live through their body! The feeling I had inside of wanting to fix it was my personality wanting to feel better MYSELF about their situation.

As for the moments where you judge someone who is in upset because they are behaving as less than themselves, just remember the feeling of frustration you have is a direct reflection of your disagreement with Greater Wisdom’s point of view about that person.

From Greater Wisdom’s point of view, they are adorable, worthy of love, and capable of anything.

The only way to guarantee a new tomorrow is to focus on the future you want, not to argue about the past that you don’t.

My dearest friends don’t judge me when I am being less than brilliant; they simply remind me of who I am and that when there is an opening, I am open to receive.

A LEADER isn’t perfect. That is not even a target that I care to aim for. I am for doing my best, and having compassion for those times when it’s all too much. And when I screw up, I just apologize.

A LEADER is self-responsible, with a healthy dose of community to support that self-responsibility. I have a posse.

Sometimes it takes a long time for me to come back around to the truth that I need to see.

When I’m off my greatest path, I feel it..

Compassion for myself is paramount, or how could I have compassion for others.

In the end, you are either in thriving mode, leading to a new tomorrow where we don’t react to each other, or in survival mode, trying to control your now to be acceptable.

You may not have thought of yourself as a leader, but you are, by how you Be in the world, with your team or in your family. You aren’t wrong if you didn’t realize this. But now, you cannot un-know it.

Your life matters. How you Be in the world matters. Respect this life. You get to be here in times of great change. It was not a mistake.

See you on the playing field!

With love and great compassion for your path (and mine),

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Greetings for this new year!

Greetings for this new year!

This past year offered so much clarity and contrast, bringing ‘the dark into the light’, revealing it both in the world, and in my own life.

As we’re shutting the door on the closing year, let’s declare it complete, with great gratitude.

I know I’m so thankful for all that came to light, making me laser beam focused on this coming year. I’m looking at ways to assist humanity more creatively than I’ve ever considered before, and all while simplifying as much as possible. Phew!

Our choices are clear. We either continue arguing for sides and trying to fix the past, or start engaging, as the Heaven on Earth Construction Crew, towards finding solutions for our lives, communities, and the wider world.

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Happy Merry Everything to you…

Happy Merry Everything to you…

After listening to the news of a dear friend really struggling at this time of year, and some news I was aware of another colleague who was deeply depressed, it became pretty apparent what I wanted to share with you at this intense time of year.

This time of year can be so beautiful and yet it can also be challenging as there are several coinciding significant events.

1. The Winter Solstice: which is an opportunity to look at our choices, restart, and go within to remember ourselves as we move into the next major phase of the year.

2. A major figure’s birthday: Jeshuah represents compassion and forgiveness in the world, Christ consciousness being about unconditional love.

3. The End of a Yearly Cycle and the Beginning of a New One: These combined focus points allow us access to the love needed to move through just about anything, if we so choose.

At the same time, everything that is incomplete, ready to be transmuted, or unnecessary for the year to come will surely reveal itself.

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When things change…

When things change…

Well, my old backpack died after 13 years of climbing mountains, going to swim with dolphins, and chasing rainbows in Hawaii. It’s the beige backpack. I’m thinking of all the people whom we’ve taken on Wide Awakening Adventures and program trips (including you!)

Honestly, letting it go was hard as I happily remembered being with Cathy in Bimini, Vikki in Italy, Nika in Asheville, Amy in Abaco, Jenny in Uxbridge, and so many more special moments. That backpack was a constant companion for all of it. When I threw it in the trash, I really felt I should have a ceremony, SO I DID!

It feels like everything is up to leave this year … clearing the decks with the Winter Solstice, Jeshua’s birthday coming, New Year celebrations, and all.

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