Soul family is definitely a thing…

“Keep your vision in front of you and let the polarity
catalyze your passion, rather than divide you from others.

Jennifer Hough

I remember thinking to myself in high school, and until I was about 44 years old: “Hey, where are the people who get me?” Paradoxically, I didn’t realize that needing to be “seen” or “gotten” was really just me chasing my own tail. We all change so much every day, every hour that, honestly, that would be a full-time job.

HOWEVER… there are some characteristics that I have noticed in those with whom I love to play, and I wonder if you have, too?

– A willingness to be self-responsible

– An appreciation of the magic of humor

– A willingness to let go of beliefs, in order to allow oneself to love and be loved more

– A generous heart

– A curiosity on this adventure called Life (about our magical nature in every respect, and how we can love Life more!)

– A yearning vulnerability in conversation, with a willingness to share successes, ideas and fallibility (rather than just small talk)

– A yearning to get the most out of this Life

What I was really searching for were people who were as curious about Life, intimacy, health, and making a difference.

People who wanted to go on the adventure down the wormhole of curiosity about fluidity, flow, and the magic of becoming more and more wizard-like… all while experiencing a deep abundance of things that matter, like love, connection, vitality, and of all things good.

Fitting in became overrated.

If people are true to their hearts, a lot of other hearts will resonate. That means, if they let their hearts be seen powerfully, while not letting fears dominate, change can happen.

There is a lot of fear out there. There is a lot of false leadership out there, preying on people’s fears. Even marketing is often done from that perspective.

Be “FOR” something, instead of against others. Likely you will find other people who don’t need the fear of “losing” what they treasure in order to fuel their passion.

If you resonate, you are likely part of a very big SOUL FAMILY, developing right now, that is “FOR” our collective communion for good, rather than “against” another human being.

Keep your vision in front of you. Let the polarity catalyze your passion rather than divide you from others.

Eventually we might realize that we (at some level) were always each others’ Soul Family.

Seems a long way off… but the alternative is to give in to fears. And that sounds like a world I don’t want to live in.

Big love,



We all project our way of being on others here and there…

We all project our way of being on others here and there…

It’s interesting that visionaries are terrific at seeing the big picture but, sadly, not always great at building bridges so others can share their visions for the future of their business, projects, families and dreams. It’s frustrating for others that don’t see life in the same way.

As a visionary, I find it frustrating because sometimes, we can’t understand why others don’t see our future vision and sometimes judge colleagues unfairly.

In the past, I’ve had to deal with this in TWA. My brain is naturally wired for the big picture, which is no better or worse, just a different way of being. Sometimes, though, we visionaries unhelpfully project our way of thinking onto others, assuming they see what we see, leaving them feeling they didn’t get the memo about the way forward.

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‘Or betters’ are what happen when we…

‘Or betters’ are what happen when we…

‘Or betters’ present frequently when we simply remember ourselves as the embodied intention of everything we’ve ever lived in any life. They manifest when we remember our free will to choose, realizing our trajectory is the result of every past life, every desire, and every prayer you have ever prayed.

‘Or betters’ happen when you live like control is overrated. Understanding the resources of the omnipotent and omniscient Creation will deliver for you so far beyond anything your lovely (please don’t hate me) pea brain can intend is key. Your brain only accesses your history, the programs you learnt in school and paradigms you’ve created through the years, and who wants to ‘rinse and repeat’ that again?

Your greater Wisdom is constantly dancing with the trajectory you are on. You’re a living intention, without ever needing to use your brain to intend. Infinite Wisdom is in a dance with you, responding to your every thought and, perhaps ever more, to your actions. It’s responding to your life’s purpose. The thing is, you can’t mentally intend your way to an awesome life.

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Sometimes change feels scary to go through…

Sometimes change feels scary to go through…

What part of us is scared of change? It’s the part that has to die for the expanded version to become the new YOU, able to sustain the dream you’re dreaming.

The true infinite soul of us does not die, so YOU are not afraid to die. It’s the part of you that feels comfy, familiar and predictable that’s afraid. Personally, distinguishing between the true ME and the identities or aspects of my personality trying to protect me gives me some solace, lessening my need for courage.

On the other hand, what is this internal need to follow my heart?
To make dreams/imaginings/potential creations come to reality?
Do you feel that? Am I alone here? I don’t think so.

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