A delicious podcast triggered me to share this …

Picture Credits – Jeannie Selda

“Receptivity is our natural state. It’s simply not our most well-practiced habit.”
Jennifer Hough

WHY DOESN’T WHAT YOU DESIRE MANIFEST ITSELF? I mean for real. I was listening to a delicious podcast this morning, and it triggered me to share this post. We can be so myopically focused on our desires, our goals, or our dreams. We start keeping score of whether those dreams are manifesting, based on a very, very limited perception of what’s possible. When we keep score, and judge that things are not happening according to plan, we actually put our attention on a judgment of a process that we cannot see from the “cosmic view.”

If you truly want to experience life as a series of “or betters” (i.e., miracles as normal), there are some things you need to know. Here are three important perspectives that may help you be free of sabotaging yourself:

WHO KNOWS BETTER; YOU OR INFINITE WISDOM? Infinite wisdom does not operate from the ideas of the limited mind (based on memories, TV shows, and/or culture). It operates using resources we cannot imagine. Stop trying to outguess the Universe. The more you let yourself “’not know,” the more space consciousness has to deliver the “or betters.” I call them “or betters” because they are better than what the mind tries to come up with. “Or betters” come in the form of the process through which dreams manifest, and what actually manifests. If you love to control things, this will be a hard one for you.

ARE YOU TRYING TO GET SOMEWHERE (Be honest!)? Are you trying to prove something? Feel safe by achieving your goal? Be more comfortable? Or, prevent the past from happening again through manifesting what you desire? As soon as any of this energy is in your “wanting,” you have just impeded physics from granting you an “or better.” Why? Because there is nowhere to get to… the purpose is to enjoy. There is nothing to prove. You are already whole and complete, and that is how the Universe sees you. Predictability is not the purpose of life; the adventure is. Preventing the past just brings the past into the present, so now you are right back where you started.

GET OUT OF YOUR (or the Universe’s) OWN WAY: It takes changing the entire understanding of life, or a paradigm shift, to change your magnetics. If you are simply intending, wishing or wanting, without shifting your underlying hurts and wounds, it will be a rough road, as you ask the stream of consciousness to go faster, while traveling over rocks. The paradox is that by focusing on wounds, you also attract the same energy. So, how do you make shifts without immersing in the wounds and attracting more yuck? It takes support, assistance and not being alone.

We all have the capacity to change thousands of beliefs by shifting one paradigm. That is both a science and an art. That’s the fun of going on the journey to Thriving.

Consciousness loves you. You are the taste buds of Infinite Wisdom; therefore, always being served up abundance deliciously and organically. But, it requires that you get out of the way of all that is coming to you. That is both a science and an art. Immerse yourself in learning how to live this way; it’s changed my life and the lives of thousands of other people with whom we’ve worked.

Start with the easy stuff first (those first three steps above), and be a relentless champion of yourself.

With love,


You were not born to fit in with anyone else…

You were not born to fit in with anyone else…

I wanted to share with you how grateful I am to my colleague Shannon, for my new favorite question:

“What is the most fulfilling thing I can do, with the least amount of effort, that uses my abilities the most, while making the biggest difference and has me waking up inspired every day?”

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It never gets old!

It never gets old!

What a day full of rain showed me as I walked up to the top of a hill to do my daily evening practice…

Once I was at the top of the hill, I noticed in the distance were the mountains to the left and clouds that had spent a whole week here, were moving away. The sun was peeping through as it was going down. The rays of light were spectacular on the mountains.

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A little tree shaking…

A little tree shaking…

I used to be VERY teacher-like (my Mom was a teacher, so I come by it honestly).

I was just used to it; I never questioned being that way. However, I didn’t realize what it cost me, and that was MY POWER.

It put me above people. It looked as though I had it all handled, and I didn’t. As a result, I also attracted people who wanted to give their power away to me.

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